help i want my life back?

Question

can anyone help me a spell anything to bring her back,i'm lost with out her.i'd sell my soul to be back with my wife.i'm suicidal with out her.real answers only please.

listen she everything that i want.she is smoking hot now and i'll never get someone close to that hot.plus she's the mother of my 2 girls.i feel like a loser because i loved her when she was overwieght and now i have no confidence.and i loved her unconditionally

ive been praying and asking god to bring us back,i'm getting worse.i'm lost without my family.she means everything to me.

Answer 1

Rob, buddy..... I can sympathize. Ive been there. But you know what? You are not lost without her - you only think you are. Suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary situation. Dont bother with it.

You dont need God, prayer or anything. What you need to do is sit and listen to yourself. Why is she gone? What part of the situation is your responsibility? How can you become a better man in the future?? Fix these issues, and she will either come back, or you will find an even better woman. Thats what I did. And I found her when I wasnt looking.... Hint - women can smell desperation. Avoid looking, acting and speaking desperately...

Nothing pisses me off more than someone telling you that spells wont work, but praying to God will. GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE. If prayers worked, I wonder why cancer still kils people. I wonder why amputees cant grow back their arms and legs..... Please Rob, stick to whatever beleif system you have, and dont listen to these people trying to convert you. jackasses...

Answer 2

This guy said it best so I'm putting it up again... read this, he's absolutely right... get a grip


Rob, buddy..... I can sympathize. Ive been there. But you know what? You are not lost without her - you only think you are. Suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary situation. Dont bother with it.

You dont need God, prayer or anything. What you need to do is sit and listen to yourself. Why is she gone? What part of the situation is your responsibility? How can you become a better man in the future?? Fix these issues, and she will either come back, or you will find an even better woman. Thats what I did. And I found her when I wasnt looking.... Hint - women can smell desperation. Avoid looking, acting and speaking desperately

Answer 3

Unlike a previous poster, I disagree. We do not need to know any of the details.

The only way to get her back is if she is willing to come back. If she left you, for whatever reason, then she most likely feels you are not worthy of her. This could indicate you either 1) did something that ran her off... 2) she was not pleased with the relationship as it was in its current state and felt like it was going nowhere.

In order for anything to change, you must first start by changing yourself. You must do everything in your power to try and correct whatever was wrong. Women will sometimes leave without reason, but deep down, there is something: sex, communication, abuse (verbal or physical), lack of attention to her needs, etc. More often than not, her partner does not listen to her needs. She needs to know that she is the priority in your life.

Can you repair that? Yes. But she has to be willing too. A partnership is a two way street. Start by asking if there is anything you can do to fix the problem. Maybe suggest counseling... but you also have to be willing to do what it takes. Be prepared for a a big fat no. Sometimes if it gets to this point, the relationship is beyond repair. You will know if it is if she makes a statement to the tune of, "I had to go to this extreme to get your attention and now you want to work it out?"

Be careful, but my advise is if she is unwilling to work it out, your best bet is to improve yourself, fix whatever you think needs fixed, and move on. As difficult as it sounds, sometimes it's your only option. Good luck!

Answer 4

I'm sorry about that, I know love hurts. I don't want you to hurt yourself though. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to her calmly. Start all over and get to know each other all over again. Maybe it had something to do with a trust issue or simply a misunderstanding. It seems as if you really loves her so I can tell that you are a great person, so if she is not willing to love you remember that someone else will. Good luck sweetie.

Answer 5

A spell is temporary, but I tell you if you get on your knees and ask the Lord to give you peace in the midst of what you are going through and ask him to forgive you for all that you have done, he will, ask him to come in your heart and show you the path that you must go...You are living a undefeated life with out him...find someone you can trust and knows about church that can pray for you if you feel you can't pray for yourself....Just start talking to him now....No matter what you say is not dumb, he just wants to know if you are willing to make the change, he knows your heart...I wil pray for you also...

Answer 6

If you truly love her, let her go. She left for a reason and threatening suicide or otherwise being unable to move on is emotional blackmail. Think about the reasons the marriage did not last and find the assistance you need to work through those issues. Holding onto someone who obviously does not want to be held onto is not healthy. Good luck to you.

Answer 7

Here's your spell:

*Go down to your local mental health facility.
*Ask to speak to a counselor. Let your incantation be telling the counselor what went wrong, then listen for the voice of wisdom to speak to you through the counselor and in your own heart.
*Repeat until you are able to resolve this problem, either by changing yourself enough that she is willing to come back or by letting her go in peace.

There are many things that magic can help with, but this isn't one of them. You would be interfering with her free will if you tried to force her to come back to you. Love spells are some of the trickiest, most dangerous spells that you can do, because even when they work they bring heartbreak in their wake.

Call upon the gods to help you to heal and to give you strength enough to withstand the pain, and know that you can survive this. Blessed be.

Answer 8

You are in the category.

pray for what you want.

Maybe there is a reason why she is not w/ you now. Maybe for your own best interest, this has to be for now.

Time will pass, and other ppl in your life will mean just as much or maybe even more to you than this girl does now.

Take some deep breaths, involved yourself in a fun hobby- visit some old friends, just be good to yourself.

:-) we all have to go thru life.
remember- it takes both rain & sunshine to create a beautiful rainbow!

Answer 9

Good-bye, so long. Ask God for help and join a church. This is drastic measures but they seem to be in order. Also try not to change anything about your house, or collections during the time she was with you. This will help you preserve the point in your life when you where most happy.

Answer 10

This is not enough information to give you a proper answer - and the fact is that there will never be enough information. Your predicament depends on what sort of personal relationship you had with your wife, also your personality and her personality, your actions, her actions .... and much, much more. I can only tell you what the doctor told me when I was in a similar situation, his words were "Tomorrow is never as bad as you think it's going to be" --- he was right.