2006-08-09 07:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by Pardonthepun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My son's girlfriend broke up with him via text messaging. Is how it's done in this day and age?
2006-08-09 08:16:04 · update #1
Absolutely. Breaking up via text message is never appropriate. If you have only been on a few dates, you owe this person at least a phone call. If you've been together a few months, do it in person.
2006-08-09 07:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Miss B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only rude, but I think it's the most chicken crap thing a person could do. If you want to break up with someone, I know it's difficult but you need to go up to them, talk to them, tell them why you feel that way and get over and done with.
2006-08-09 14:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Not to mention heartless.... if you once had feelings for this person you were dating and are now looking to end the relationship, then you need to keep respect for the other individsual's feelings and for the feelings that you once shared with them. The only way to break-up with someone and still show them that you respect them is to do it in person, face to face... no texting, not phone calls, no e-mail, and deffinently no best friends going over and doing it for you! You and only you can be the one to break it to him.
~God bless
2006-08-09 14:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG Uhhhhh yeah its rude. I'd say if you do it, keep a close eye on your car, or anything valuable. Cuz let me just say if that happened to me. The car would be the first to go! My bf lives two hours away and has a gate... and I'd drive out there, scale the gate and go to TOWN on his car! lmao
2006-08-09 14:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by socalgrrrl05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude. Low-down. Trifling. Cowardly. Impersonal. Need I say more.
My daughter's BF did that and as far as I am concerned, "Good riddance." That busta!
2006-08-09 14:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. would you like for someone to break up with you in that type of formant.. I don't think so.. I think you would like some type of explanation.. Take care and God Bless.
2006-08-09 14:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mature thing todo would be to handle it face to face and be honest while trying to be polite. i think that is how you should deal with it, but if you are uncomfortable with that then i guess you have to do what you feel...at any rate i wish you luck.
2006-08-09 14:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is rude and cowardly! How impersonal can a you get?
2006-08-09 14:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION, DID YOU MEET THROUGH TEXT MESSAGING? SO DO NOT BREAK IT OFF WITH A TEXT MESSAGE. GO TO THAT INDIVIDUAL WITH YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH, GIVE THEM THE REASON AND THEN BREAK IT OFF.
2006-08-09 14:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls.....please just be honest and tell us on the phone or even face to face if you can, but tell us exactly why so we can learn.
2006-08-09 14:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋