I am happier then I have ever been, My boyfriend and I have however have only ever been with one and other sexually. Although I find it romantic and am very happy I find myself wondering if I want to experiment with other people, we have talked about having a threesome with another girl however I am not willing to risk what we have, and my boyfriend feels that I am enough for him. I am trilled to have a wonderful loving partner but wonder if its worth risking in order to be with another women. Do you think its something I should forget about or should we work towards a interment experience with another women?
2006-08-09 07:13:33 · 12 answers · asked by bailey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not try the swinging lifestyle.
2006-08-09 07:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. Are you serious? Don't wreck a good thing! Of course it's natural to wonder. That doesn't mean we have to act our fantasies out or that we're afraid of "the wild side" if we choose to walk the straight and narrow.
I have a friend in your shoes, married for 25 years now, and they've had the same discussion. Ultimately, they delight in the fact that theirs is really a unique relationship--how many other people can say they've only been with their true love sexually?
Follow your instinct (you have already characterized this as a "risk"--your words.) Be proud of what you have and stay true to your gut feeling.
2006-08-09 07:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool. Be happy you have a great relationship and that your enough for your boyfriend. Why risk it with another chick. That is gross. Then later you will think about it and regret it and start having problems. Keep your relationship the way it is. Your prince should be enough for you if you truly love him. If not then don't waste his time. Nowadays worry about all the deceases. Be Celibate with your man.
2006-08-09 07:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. I have been in your shoes before. You will like it at first because it is new and exciting, but it plants emotional and relational problems in your relationship with each other. Also, you will more than likely become adicted to that nature, and one of you will be emotionally damaged because you feel your partner needs that outside attention and that the other person is not enough.
Why don't ya'll jsut experiment new positions or something different to spice things up and make it new.
2006-08-09 07:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ sweet-n-low ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Wake up!
Your boyfriend feels that you're enough for him?-He's trying not to offend you!
Get the other woman on the scene, perform with her in front of him and see if he can keep his hands(or other parts) off her for more than 30seconds(<-- average time it takes to undress).
If after that you both feel the same way then at least you know that:
1) your the only one for him
2) he's less likely to cheat on you
3) your love is true and will stand the test of time
(If you do get it on with a next woman, send me the tape and I'll offer free advice on anything that you may be doing wrong)
2006-08-09 07:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by jjdawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're having doubts that is might ruin what you already have with him, than don't go through with it. If you seem to think about it alot lately and the both of you have agreed, then go ahead and try it. It must be a mutual decision though-keep an open mind about it.
2006-08-09 07:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Imthelittlesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not satisfied, if you love your bf just chill out if you want to run wild then do so right now because you dont want to wait until years to come and have the i want to see the world talk with your bf and end up hurting his feelings...
2006-08-09 07:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the minute you have a threesome things will go bad. you don't want to mess up what you have with your bf. and if you are truely happy with one another then leave it that way. you don't want to do anything to take the chance of messing that up. you will also probably get jealous of sitting there watching him with another girl. don't do it!!
2006-08-09 07:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just agree when he excepts to have sex with you and another man, or why donot you try to have sex with another couple, so you donot have to feel jealous about it if he takes care about the girl than you
2006-08-09 07:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by franky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋