Im not fat but im not skinny, its very degrading to regular sized women
2006-08-09 07:08:27 · 30 answers · asked by ♥s!mply @m@z!ng♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel you. But, recently I have found that men love all m thickness and curves. Don't get it twisted, I do have muscular legs and arms and a great smile, but I'm not anywhere near skinny. Just be happy and confident, the right one will come along.
2006-08-09 07:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, society has painted a picture that a women should be thin, not necessarily skinny though. Men look for a visual sense of sex appeal. They will find it much more so in a thinner woman than a women with more weight (in most cases). As for the "_ _ut" portion, it might be perceived by some that a thinner woman might have more advances by a male, therefore giving her the appearance that she engages in some type of physical or sexual contact with her partner. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't.
Don't beat yourself up though. You sound healthy with the weight you're at. People will accept you for who you and who you are physically. Not sure if you would want the publicity the "sluts" are getting!
Hang in there regular sized!
2006-08-09 14:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question is what is a regular sized woman. Skinny is not that appealing, but rolls of fat don't do much for a person either. Get in shape (not just dieting, that's how you become a skinny slut) but exercise and build some muscle tone. That's what is really sexy.
2006-08-09 14:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gonna like this one ... but I don't always go for "best answer".
You have issues. Look at the rage you feel at skinny women - to call them all sluts? Then you go far off the deep end and say the very fact that men are attracted to skinny women "is degrading to regular sized women"!
You obviously feel you are entitled to men being attractive to you. This sense of entitlement is a HUGE turn off for guys, and they can smell it a mile away. That's point #1.
#2: Toned women enjoy being fit. Most fit/slender women need to work at it, but they enjoy being fit. They enjoy looking good, and getting a man's attention. They actually enjoy it, and therefore are always happy to receive it. They don't expect it, they work to get it, and love when it comes their way. Women who like BEING attractive are a huge turn ON! You expect to be attractive, and turn men off. Other babes WANT to be attractive, and their receptiveness turns men ON.
#3: Wake UP! Slender, fit, "tight" women are simply VERY attractive. If they weren't, Hollywood would make more movies with women who are carrying an extra 10% of weight around on their bodies. Hollywood knows what people like. Men like fit, toned women. To see this as some big mystery that causes you to be degraded is almost delusional. Wake up! Tight women are hot!
Put your energy into losing a few pounds, spend 3 months being one of "the skinny sluts", and your entire perspective will change.
Reality is deaf - arguing with it does no good.
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2006-08-09 14:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, how old are you? Most "Men" like women with curves and hips, and boobs. The most important thing is that they are "healthy" and not skinny. Real skinny girls are a turn off to me, as they don't look like women, they look like 15 year old boys. Now, I'm 27, have been with several women, and you realize that women are more fun in bed when they're not a sack of bones.
Hope that helps
2006-08-09 14:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just looking for someone who will let them between their legs. I'm in your boat...not fat or skinny and guys still want someone thinner than me. Problem for them is that the skinnier chicks they are picking have no intelligence. Good thing for us we have the brains to not pick any self centered men like those ones are.
2006-08-09 14:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know that they can get what they want and theyre a "prize" on their arms.
They dont go for personality. Just wait for the right person to come along, im not skinny but get plenty of attention when I want it and have a good personality. Just hold out for the right person and they will love you for who you are.
2006-08-09 14:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by passionate_angel101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't. Only men that aren't worth your time go for those kind of girls. And truly- I've heard countless guys say they want a real woman, not a poster girl for anorexia. And they want a women they respect. You can bet that they aren't taking sluts home to meet their families.
2006-08-09 14:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by belinda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the young immature little boys who choose a woman totally for how she looks. They do it for their ego and status. It's only when they mature and get some common sense that they realize that there is more to a woman that what she looks like.
Ditch the little boys and find a mature man.
2006-08-09 14:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to say that all skinny chicks are sluts? If you have love for yourself, then someone will love you back. If you don't love yourself as you are, then how can someone else love you?
Personally, I think all skinny chicks are just stuck up! :)
2006-08-09 14:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by FH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋