my boyfriend and i have been together for about 8 months. he got to go to london for a semester, and he had that nerve to say we should see able to see other people while he was away. i was hurt. i don't even know why i stuck with him. but his little trip turned out not to be as fruitful as he had hoped, so it seems, as he calls me every night and wants to hang on the phone - not bringing up his request for freedom and asking alot of question about my wherabouts. on the other hand, i've been flirting around with this really hot guy i met through my friend. if i'm going to do anything, its going to be this week. all i have to do is tell him of my sistuation and i'm pretty sure i can get a weekend of freakiness with one of the cutest guys i ever met. i guese i'm torn because it doesn't seem fair.
2006-08-09 07:06:39 · 18 answers · asked by x o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have fun............HELL YEAH!
2006-08-09 07:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by billysmk2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair!? What does fair have to do with this?
Still, I'm confused. It seems as though you are thinking about this as a form of revenge. I'm hoping that you can step back and look at the situation a little more objectively. Having used a woman or two for revenge against the sex, I can honestly tell you that it leaves you feeling hollow. Now, if you are truly interested in this guy... well... that changes the situation, doesn't it?
Also, if he is calling you every night, remember the time difference. He might be just waking-up from a rather rowdy night, and keeping you from doing the same. You know, having his cake and eating it too.
Good luck!
2006-08-09 07:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur bf had this request from you .. I dont see whats the problem here. U found a hottie .. Why dont u go for him? Do u know what he is doing in London with his request?
If he gets upset at you? U said remember u are the one that is asking for a request to see eachother. So?!?!?! So give it a try then u can decide if u want to be with this jerk bf or a new guy?!?!
If ur bf really loves you .. he shouldnt NEVER ask you for his silly REQUEST if he has YOU and is going away for a semester in London .. Sounds like he wants his fun PLEASURE for a SEMSTER of SIngle then come back to you later.
I hope u are not being used. But again, i can be wrong about your situation . I would felt hurt if my Fiance say that to me!
2006-08-09 07:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first ask yourself...What do I plan to get out of doing it with...let's call him...Mr. Hottie? Do I want to make my boyfriend jealous? What if he doesn't get jealous? Do I want Mr. Hottie to be my boyfriend? What if he doesn't want to be my boyfriend? What if my boyfriend really wants to be my boyfriend? What if he wishes he had never said he wanted to see other people? What if he really does miss me?
I say, flirt for a little while longer to give yourself some time to think about it. If it's over with your boyfriend, break up with him when he gets back BEFORE YOU DO IT WITH MR. HOTTIE! If Mr. Hottie is REALLY into you, he'll wait. You need to preserve your self respect. Don't do something you might regret later. You know what I mean?
2006-08-09 07:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by JKM1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two questions here:
You should breakup with your current/past/wierd-situation boyfriend. He sounds like a wanna be.
It sounds like you're still a virgin. If you need to ask Yahoo! Answers about whether you should have sex with a particular guy, you have not found the right guy to have sex with.
Duh!
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2006-08-09 08:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to feel like a sleaze afterwords. Just because he's a hottie doesn't mean you have to sleep with him. That is sooo stupid. Looks aren't everything.
2006-08-09 07:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to guess, since you used the term go all the way, that you are way too young to be doing that. So I will give you a big fat NO.
2006-08-09 07:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he calls you every night, you don't know what he is doing in the day. it was his idea anyways to see other ppl, so i say go for it regardless if he does or not. make yourself happy. if you want to do it then do it.
2006-08-09 07:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, if you want to do it.
this isn't about him, its about you. yes, he is your bf and you have to consider him with decisions like this, but as you said, he already gave you the green light when he left for london.
2006-08-09 07:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt go all the way with someone unless ur married
2006-08-09 07:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was his idea to see other people, so if you want to do it you should, but be prepared to deal with consequences because there are always consequences
2006-08-09 07:11:47 · answer #11 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋