so i got the answers that i expected out of my question.
so now how can i let go of someone who i love with all my heart the one person that has my life how can i look him in the eye and say good bye.2 yrs and everyday loving him more but seeing no future.
i have been playing mother on him protecting him and being there for him he has no job no car and is not planning on getting neither in a way his mothers fault for babying him his life is getting worse by the day and ive done what i can and he doesnt apreciate it and he wont change.
how can i talk to him if he doesnt want to listen?. or where can i get the strength to keep on taking life as it comes.
i feel like giving up ive felt like this so many times
how can i make my self see and understand that the person taht i love so much and who gives me the best feeling in this world is also the person that has destroyed me from inside how can i realize it i know it but my heart keeps on denying it.
im20 hes21 2yr relationshi
2006-08-09 07:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by 3vero6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this same exact problem. I basically told him what you told us. I can't be with him if he can't even take care of himself and do what he needs to do for himself. He needs to concentrate on him and i needed to concentrate on me.
Good luck its no fun at all
2006-08-09 07:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fault yourself for having a relationship that let you fall in love. You have learned a lot from what it sounds and you will be much wiser and stronger in your next relationship. It hurts, no doubt about it, but you are seeing what the future holds if you stay where you are, and know deep down that you have to do this.
You are young and you have so much more ahead of you, whether you think so or not right now. Get out there and see what this world has to offer.
You already have the strength - your emotions are playing tug of war with you. Just decide which side you want to win and go for it and don't look back.
Chin up, stand up straight and be proud of who you are - you have already taken the first step !
I wish you luck and happiness !
2006-08-09 14:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl you got it bad. I read this and your past questions and you are so dependent on him it is sad. Sickening actually. I mean look at the words you use to describe how you feel about this guy. You have told us nothing positive about him at all, other than he is an incredible looser, and yet you are totally hooked on him, baby him, mother him. I sure wish I could be a complete looser and get the chicks to devote themselves to me like this. Do you really think there is no other man that would be better than this man in all the world, there like 2 billion men out there. You know what you needed to do so do it. Why have a problem with it, he's a looser who is sucking the life out of you, and at 20 that is sad. I'd love to be 20 again and live life and have fun. Do it!
2006-08-09 15:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u I'd take him out to dinner and ask him to listen to u read something and hear u out. Tell him exactly this....and tell him it will be hard and lonely but U deserve more and I'm not your sugar momma..go find a support group...
2006-08-09 14:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find a new mam i can help that
2006-08-10 10:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋