i have this religion where gurlz get asked for their hands from their parents if the parents approve they can get married but if they dont she dosent. and thd thing is me and this guy are in love we talk secretly on the phone. he is gonna ask for my hand and im scared my parents will reject him and i dont wanna loose him at the same time not my parents!!! wat should i do?????????????
2006-08-09 06:44:13 · 2 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How well do you know him? Maybe you should take some time to get to know him better, in person. Find a way that you can have your parents meet him. If they have a chance to know him before he asks, I think your chance of them approving will be better. If they don't approve, you need to know why. If they have a good and valid point, you should listen to them. If they don't have a reasonable point then you will have to decide if you love him enough to risk your relationship with your parents and your religion. If they say no, you might want to ask them who they would approve of.
2006-08-16 05:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bravo Your Life! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a different religion. i do not believe that is right. religion is your choice. become just a plain chrisian who believes that couples get married if they want to, and the parents don't need to approve
2006-08-09 15:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by king cobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋