U would first like to thank everyone who answered my "I'm hurt...what do I do" question but there is one problem...when I talked to him and told him that I was cutting him off he kind of made me feel really bad and we ended up talking until 2:30 this morning. I think that he might think he has made the wrong choice but then again he soulds really confident in his choice. So he is saying that we should stay friends b/c we never know what will happen but I am not trying to be his back up plan...I am really confused b/c I am starting to fall in love with him but all he keeps saying is stay friends. Now that I am confused and he wants to keep talking to me as a friend we now have a saying that "Friends are Forever" but I am not sure I can handle that b/c I want to be more than friends...Please tell me what is a girl to do???
2006-08-09 06:43:23 · 3 answers · asked by Lady B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what 'flow your heart' means. And ALL CAPS scare me.
Instead of trying to decide, Is he the one? - Maybe just do things with him socially. Define your boundaries. Consider your long term goals. Decide if you want to see other people also at the same time. If you're uncertain, spend more time with more people. Regardless, don't allow him to enclose your world to only focus on him.
2006-08-09 09:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WOULD BE DOING YOURSELF A DISSERVICE TO SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR HIM TO DECIDE WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.
MOVE ON AND DO NOT BECOME EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN ANYONE WHO MAKES YOU WONDER OR WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU.
REJECTION SUCKS, BUT IT BUILDS CHARACTER AND EXPERIENCE, SO GET OVER IT.
2006-08-09 14:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flow your heart
2006-08-09 13:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by jamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋