I'm feeling this situation would't finish for me,don't say,you are doctor,you have to be able to solve your problem,I have been traped in bad situation,mostly people say to me I'm attractive and slim,how can find a nice person with out spliting and have a happily family for ever?
2006-08-09 06:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by bahar R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
decide what kind of man you want
find the closest you can to your ideal
and begin going out ...
when it comes to marrage, don't ask, tell them what you are doing. and marry despite their objectins. It is your life
sometimes culture and family is a problem
2006-08-09 06:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 32 years old. Girl, you are well over the age of grown. If you find someone that you like or love and they want to marry you and you want too, just get married. Families are nice to have but if you want something else go for it. If your family hates you for your choice then they really did not love you in the first place. Sounds like your family is controlling and you are allowing them to be. So grow up and live your life the way you want to. After all, it's about time. Good luck.
2006-08-09 13:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your family don't want you to be happy then screw it you probably want to start a family and get on with your life your over 18 and you got a job a really good job actually and you don't live in their house I hope. so go for it make your self happy
2006-08-09 13:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
32 you are a big girl. why is your family preventing you from getting married? try to meet someone by going to a gym.
2006-08-09 13:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by imurhuckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pity you!...You are now 32 and still can not decide for yourself! Where is your backbone, girl?! If you really want to get married, there is not one in this earth can stop you!
2006-08-09 13:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not a girl, you are a woman already.
Grow up, and let your family know about it, without questions.
2006-08-09 13:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to America, find happiness. Family will always be there, when they see you are happy then they will be happy. Life is too short to wait.
2006-08-09 13:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Papa Dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to ask yourself, will you please your family all your life and stay single, or please yourself and find a good and decent man to be your husband? Your choice.
Sounds like it's not working whatever you are doing now. We aren't here on earth to please others or have them walk all over us. Grow a backbone. Find a good guy and live your dreams.
2006-08-09 13:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to decide for yourself ---- you can't be trapped by your family --- that's not working for you because you ain't happy.
Go find an available guy ---and see how things progress!
2006-08-09 13:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your family to go away and that you are old enough to start making your own desicions and they have no right to stop you.
2006-08-09 13:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋