me and my boyfriend did not sleep with each other yet (been together for 1,5 months).. he kinds of wants me to have sex with him, i want it too, but he thinks i am very shy or sth, kept telling me last time to talk with my girlfriends and let me know about it and so , i do not understand him, would it be weird if i went to other girls and talked to them about it ??
2006-08-09 06:32:49 · 14 answers · asked by franky c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you don't talk to anybody don't have sex with him
2006-08-09 06:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your friends aren't supportive, talking to them about it should be fine. But you haven't been together with each other for a large amount of time, you should wait longer, if you ask me. It also depends on how old you are. Do what you think is right.
2006-08-09 06:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mollster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want it too..then y r u confused? do u feel its wrong? or do u think he's wrong? dont do anything rash.u'll regret it for the rest of ur life..whether its 1.5 months or 15months u can still wait..he should be able to give u time.but if he's pushing it push him off..y will it b weird if u talk to other girls?its natural..talk to some one u trust.. but pls dont have sex without protection..ever..
2006-08-09 06:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are shy or just not really confident in the bed. you might as well discuss with your friends what they do, they can definitely help you out. don't feel weird either because sex isn't something openly discussed unless you're with close friends. they'll be honest and help you out. on the other hand just wait it out, if it happens it happens, you really don't have to rush.
2006-08-09 06:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by wam4985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first.......... i hope that you have thought about, made arrangements for and are prepared to use birth control and a condom. If you cannot bring yourself to have this conversation with your boyfriend and actually use protection then you are not ready to or mature enough to "sleep with" each other.
2006-08-09 06:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by jaybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when youre ready. Whats the rush?
2006-08-09 06:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not @ all ur bf is werid if he wants sex for a 5 month relationship u should wait prbly on ur 1st year aniversay
2006-08-09 06:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. go talk to them. I talk to my g-friends about sex all the time. How old are you? Are you a virgin? if so, wait till you're married. Its better that way.
2006-08-09 06:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not weird to talk to girlfriends about his situation. What is really weird is that you are asking strangers.
2006-08-09 06:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot talk to your man about it, you should not be doing it. Don't feel like you have to, or that you owe him anything. And don't feel like you have to put out to keep him around......if that's all he wants you for, then you can do better.
2006-08-09 06:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex when ur ready. Dont listen to other people.
2006-08-09 06:38:15 · answer #11 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋