i was watching the mauree show and the show was about secret crushes etc.....the guys the girls like is big, built, black guys with perfect abs, muscles etc...they are models etc...a few black women and a while woman, the white lady is a model, the black women were nice looking, nice bodies etc.....but it wasnt about personality or how they treat women etc....but it was all about looks, women going crazy over the guys bodies etc.....wanting too touch their abs etc....the women is sayning the guys have to be tall, nice bodies etc.....my questions is....i know its only a talk show etc....but is it really all about how the guy looks etc....and the guy have to be built like a adonis etc...
2006-08-09 06:31:30 · 14 answers · asked by polo_male 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
huh?!?
2006-08-09 06:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The show was just about that. Most people would say I'm a 10 (5'9", 125lbs., big green eyes, long blondish hair, etc.) I like medium framed, medium toned men. Huge muscles gross me out! The guy has to be intelligent and good natured--and worship the ground I walk on, of course.
2006-08-09 13:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some women yes to others there is a lot more to a man then that. Just like for some guys the hotter the girl the more they want them.
I think most girls are out there looking for a decent guy that has a sense of humor, and can be compassionate when we need to them to be.
2006-08-09 13:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really think about it when you first meet someone you approach them because of the way they look and then get to know about therer personality and ill tell you when a guy looks guy with great abs of course he's going to get approach first before a guy that is slender it's all in what the person is looking for in a mate
2006-08-09 13:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sure do like "etc" don't u. but on a real note people prefer certain things. when u first see someone u don't say wow i think they have an impressive mind, no the looks attract u first then once u get to know the person u can evaluate them that way.
2006-08-09 13:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the whole worldly way of thinking....personality should be the most important...its what makes the person attractive or not attractive. once i saw this guy and i thought he was soooo hot...then i met him and he was a jerk...suddenly he didnt seem so hot anymore....and it works the other way around too. So i think it's important that you find your boyfriend "attractive" but that should come second....you shouldnt go out looking for the most attractive one
2006-08-09 13:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by pirate_holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking if it's all about looks...then I dont think it its. I mean with my ex boyfriend..i didn't find him attractive at all when he asked me out, but once I got to know him he became my best friend and even though everyone else thought that I could have done better then him, I thought he was the cutest guy at my school.
2006-08-09 13:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!!! Truly none of that matters. When a woman only goes for sexy looks she won't find the true love ever!!!!
2006-08-09 13:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your appearance and hygiene are more important then a rock hard stomach and huge biceps I believe ... !
I love seeing men with big muscles and all ... but my man can be as fat as he wants as long as he's making me happy and he's happy with himself ... that is what love is ... !
2006-08-09 13:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks can get you in the door but personality will take you the rest of the way
2006-08-09 13:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by melinda w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i go by both looks and kindness and also why do u keep saying etc.
2006-08-09 13:36:58 · answer #11 · answered by kdbug2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋