I feel so ugly what do I do?

Question

I feel so ugly sometimes, what can i do? I have pretty long hair, well it is now shoulder lenght and iam getting split ends, i suffer from heredity and strong genes because I have a small amount of facial hair, i wear glasses sometime, and i have bumps on my face. iam 5 feet tall i weigh 120 pounds trying to lose some of that i just feel hiddeous, guys tell me iam so pretty all the time and i have a very handsome boyfriend and he never stopps to tell me iam beautiful but what do i do if i feel ugly? i need so help

Answer 1

maybe you should have your empty head checked. M T yep.

Answer 2

All you have to do is remind yourself that you are beautiful and you don't need nobody to tell you. I have long hair too, and a have a small amount of facial hair but thats something that God gave you, and He gave you somebody that likes you for you. Here'w what I did, I got some Nair and used it like maybe 2 times a month for my upper lip hair that I hated, I hated my eyebrows do sometimes I get them arched, and that lasts about 2 weeks. Then when I go shopping I make sure that I get something that makes others see how beautiful I feel, or want to be. I understand the height and the weight. I'm 5'3 and 119 lbs. In 5th grade I was 135 pounds and now I'm going to highschool I'm 119 pounds. I use to believe that I was so ugly too. But all you have to do is believe in yourself. Have confiendence, there is nothing more beautiful then that. Good luck.

Answer 3

the best way to take care of split ends is to go to a salon and get the ends trimmed off. the bumps on your face might either be some kind of rash or acne. sometimes bumps occur if your allergic to something. if youre using perfumed face lotion, that could be irritating your skin and causing the bumps. you can also go to a dermatologist and ask him to get rid of the bumps for you. i don't know of any treatments that help that but im sure there are. most of those feelings that youre getting is from peer pressure. try to ignore it, because it sounds to me that youre fine and you dont need to worry about it. heres something that you can do to make your self feel better. i do it all the time:
1.) look in the mirror. pull all your hair back from your face so it is out of your eyes.
2.) now, focus on each part of your face (ex. eyes, nose, etc.)
3.) come up with ten things that you like about your face/appearance and write it down on a peice of paper.
4.) read what you just wrote.
5.) now ask yourself why you feel so ugly when you have things that you like about yourself.
6.) keep the paper and post it next to your mirror so you can look at what u wrote when youre getting ready for the day.
i bet that you are really pretty. youre just focusing too much on your flaws. everyone has flaws! even models! so dont worry about it. you are pretty, inside and out.

Answer 4

ok. I'm short and I feel ugly sometimes too. I have a some facial hair too. When I'm feeling down I just take some of my money and go to the salon or spa and have my nails done. The lady then tells me that I look beautiful and I feel better. But if that doesn't work then just don't care abiut it. Then the next day I feel pretty again!

Answer 5

Go to a hair dresser and get your dead end trimed. (this also helps your hair grow faster) Maybe get a wrap your something easy to care for! Your not Fat so it's no need to lose any of that weight. (guys don't like really skinny chicks) Get the facial hair waxed. If your have a nice pair of glasses then they are fine or try contacts! For bumps you can get Proactive or a good facial cleaner. And Cheer up, you got a man that loves you for you and that is all that matters! And remember you are beatuiful! So smile girl!

Answer 6

Go to a hair salon, get a trim, maybe styled as well...

Talk to a good friend- who loves you, and willing to be honest. Take her shopping, have her help you figure out what colors and styles look good on you.

One suggestion- if you feel that you're fat, don't wear tight clothes (spandex is your friend only if you're truely thin!!)- they will just make you look fat. When in doubt, buy a size bigger. Even if it's a bigger size, it WILL look better, make you look slimmer.

For the facial hair, buy a good pair of tweezers or a razor... I have a couple nasty black hairs, too... just tweeze them. Eventually, the tweezing will damage the folicle enough that it won't produce a hair any more...

Answer 7

look love you just gotta get comfortable with yourself. If people say your good looking and your boyfriend does too then y not believe them? Your not letting yourself be pritty. Just be you and let people take you for face value. Realize what your good at be happy with that. I don't think that anyone who recieves compliments like you do should be too worried. If you think that your outward beauty is lacking then maybe take a look at who you are on the inside. Intelligence, attitude, and disire to be genuine are all inward beauties that anyone can see. You could be the most beautiful model in the world and people would still not think your beautiful for some reason. Point is just be happy with yourself and hang out with people who have similar feelings.

Answer 8

Every woman can be the best of who they are! Best wishes on that journey, you will change many times in a life time. Enjoy the journey!

Your height/weight are OK- muscle up babe! That will make things "Fit" your bones better. Always ALWAYS- alter the clothes. Its part of the price you will pay. LIVE with that.

I'm 5'1 and have double f boobs- naturally Dolly Parton! Its not a great life, if your not wanting that attention.

Take some Polaroid pictures of you. Close up. Hair, face and body. Create YOU! the hair cut, color and makeup. I wax my body- face, legs and underarms. It hurts but OH well- I'm worth every penny.

Answer 9

To make yourself feel pretty, why don't you go and get a makeover, wash your face with acne wash, shave your facial hair, and flip your hair. Also buy some make-up unless you already have it and use it. And try some some different, bright colors.

But since people say you are beautiful don't believe everything you see on tv, and on magazines. Remeber, beauty is only skin-deep.

Answer 10

Chances are, other people are worried about their looks, so they don't even bother to notice how you look. Don't worry! Ask your doctor for treatment for those bumps, and if you're concerned about the facial hair, then wax it, although its doubtful that it's really extreme. Get your hair trimmed to get rid of the split ends. And the glasses? Did you know that there are people out there who are attracted only to those with glasses?

Answer 11

Realize what you have. You're only going skin deep. Stop looking around at people's skin... or is it that you feel ugly on the inside?

You're goregeous and have a fabulous body, and wonderful boyfriend, and you can do it. Just believe in yourself. Trust me, you are going to screw up your life if you think you're ugly. Live, laugh, love and don't let life get you down. You can fly!