what would you do?

Question

if the mere mention of a certain person's name makes you want to grab that person by the neck and squeeze the life out of them?

maybe i should elaborate. my cousin is a major whore and a waste of skin not to mention the worst excuse as a mother. she had a child with a guy she had just met and without blinking an eye gave up her parental rights to her. she then had a child by another man (who happens to be her first blood cousin). the father's family is raising this child. just to save face with our family she keeps saying that she is going to fight to get her children back. her first child is 6 yrs. old and the second is 3 yrs. old. if she really gave a sh*t about them they wouldn't be where they are now. she only wants to try and gain custody of these kids so that she may claim them on her taxes so she can get a better return. i can't stand her! what do you have to say about that?

Answer 1

I WOULD GRAB THEM BY THE NECK AND SQUEEZE THE LIFE OUT OF THEM.

Answer 2

I have experienced this feeling many times throughout my relationship at present. But have learned to overcome this feeling buy realizing that there is nothing I can do if this other man is sweet on my fiance. He took some pics of her last year while we were at an event and I can sense there is some feelings for her. I have been informed by my lady that the feelings do not go both ways and I think that they have ceased any type of communication as of late. My fiance was honest with me and told me about how she felt this guy may have been interested in her over a year and a half ago. Since then whenever I hear his name I cringe inside and want to do things that are illegal to him and could get me imprisoned. Luckily I am a grown man now and able to control my temper pretty good, but if this scenario would have occurred lets say 30 years ago - it may not have had such a happy ending. So sometimes there are advantages to aging. Ha!

Answer 3

First I would get a blow torch, some kitchen shears, a nutcracker, some Skippy peanutbutter, 2 dozen nails, a rusty hack saw, a rattlesnake, some parmesean cheese, a corkscrew, a shovel and a bottle of Jack Daniels. After gathering all these items, I would then make a bomb *** sandwich and drink the booze until I am happy.

Answer 4

Avoid that person if at all possible.

Pray for my attitude to change toward that person; I can still resent what they've done, but naked rage isn't going to help me at all. Anger kills!

Analyze your own motives; just WHAT about this person makes them so despicable in your eyes? And can what they say about you be partly right? Sometimes this will help you see how much common ground you really do have, and the urge to "squeeze the life out of them" will abate so when you do meet, it'll be guarded, but you can at least talk to each other.

I hope this helps. Have a better day!

Answer 5

Just BREATHE! Put down the phone or step out of the office. Think about things that make you happy like friends, family, vacations, whatever. Take a little mini-break to gather your thoughts, and try to relax. Think about all the good things that you have in life and how one person should not have enough power over you to upset you this much. Like I said at the beginning...just breathe...

And if that doesn't help, think about how you would look in prison orange because, trust me, that isn't flattering on ANYONE...lol.

Answer 6

You are so funny!!!! What a great question!!!! YES IS MY ANSWER!!!! My blood runs wild, I can't control myself at the first mention of the name, I start to feel my body get real hot.and start to shake.like a tremor..but I hold myself steady not to let that person see it from the outside... I have to step away.....so I don't play out what's in my mind and what I would really like to do to that person standing near me - so...I go to the kitchen pour myself a cool glass of water trying to calm my nerves. I know what you mean!!!! I thought I was the only one feeling this way.

Answer 7

The person must know the mention of "that name" makes you go crazy. Take a deep breath, count to ten (it really does work), and ask them politely not to bring "that name" up again. If they love you, or even just like you a little they should respect your request. Then if they don't stop, choke the life out of them. (Joking!)

Answer 8

Wow...I know just what you mean. There a couple in particular that I haven't been able to utter for 20 years now, and if I hear that name it raises every hair on the back of my neck! I just give a little smirk and inwardly make a nasty remark.

Answer 9

anger management....you can read up on it. there are techniques to avoid rage.....I'm trying to work on my ability to contain my anger when people cut me off in traffic.
there are a lot of people with hot tempers, and sometimes people really do make you mad, but as you know it's not a healthy emotion and can get you into a lot of trouble.
try to keep it in perspective, take a few deep breaths, think of tomorrow and don't dwell on the issue. let it die and buried it!
Good Luck!
p.s.
Watch "Napoleon Dynamite"....that may help. I keep a few quotes from the movie in my mind and that helps me stay light hearted;)

Answer 10

I know how that feels - rise above them, kill 'em with kindness...I know it sounds hard, but it is so much easier to carry around forgiveness, acceptance and compassion. When others make me feel that way, I try to ask myself, why are they like that? Did I do something to make them upset (or annoying)? At last, you can just feel a little pitty for the person...

Answer 11

I would try to resolve what it is that makes me feel this way and go forward. There is no place for hate in ones life, it's hard enough to go thru life and enjoy it without feeling this way about someone. So now you need to sort this and decide is it worth it or not.