Okay have been dating this guy for awhile...so not my type but he is very nice so I have been keeping a open mind....so we had sex last week for the first time and it was HORRIBLE!!!! I know sometimes the first time is not always the best should I give him another shot????
2006-08-09 06:28:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask then it sounds as if you have already made up your mind.
As you get older you will see that the people we fall in love with are people who make us most happy. Sex is great but it isnt anything. Everyone is different. No two people are alike. Sounds as if you dont really care much about him anyhow, so just use your best judgement.
2006-08-09 06:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not your type, why are you gong out with him in the first place? Lonely? Why not just be friends? It's no wonder the sex was bad...YOU DON'T HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR HIM! There's two ways out of this...1) You do it now and break his heart a little or 2) You do it later and break his heart a lot. You decide.
2006-08-09 13:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by JKM1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it appears that in fact u r keeping a closed mind as far as this guy is concerned.u have already made up your mind that he's not your type.do you really want this to work? think hard coz its not just your feelings he's involved too.if its just about sex then u should give it another shot try to be more communicative this time.let him know what clicks for you.all d best.
2006-08-09 13:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy u are dating is not your type, then why are you in the relationship in the first place?..if there is no passion in the relationship, of course the sex will be horrible!..dont keep the guy around just because he gives you attention and affection...
2006-08-09 13:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by mamitalinda31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, unless he's a star in the porn industry maybe you should just chalk it up to inexperience between the two of you together. if after a few more times it's the same, then give me a call, i'll throw you a good bang. good luck!
2006-08-09 13:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by sickandtiredinpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! If you had any feelings for this guy, even bad sex would have seemed like good sex. You don't have feelings for him and that is fine, don't forced something that is just not there. Good Luck.
2006-08-09 13:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by 30somethin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u should the first time can be kinda nerve racking for the both of u so he might of been nervous thinkin about " oh i hope this change anything, i hope im good enough for her" so if he had his mind on that then it could of effected his "work"
next time tell him to just relax
2006-08-09 13:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would he was probably nervous about pleasing you and that hindered things somewhat. Nice of you to consider giving him another chance.
2006-08-09 13:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. If you are not even attracted to him . Why on earth are you even having sex with him, if he's not your type??
Let him go. Don't hurt him. He might really like you.
2006-08-09 13:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE GUYS NEED AT LEAST THREE TIME TO BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH THE PERSON THEY ARE ******* JUST LET HIM KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AFTER THE THIRD TIME IF ITS NOT GOOD - WALK AWAY - YOU MIGHT GIVE HIM A BJ BEFORE YOU GO AS A PARTING GIFT
2006-08-09 13:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by topwrnch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋