We had intense attraction 7 months ago. Just thinking of being with me nearly gave him a heart attack, flip-flopping stomach, couldn't breath, nerves jumping, etc., and he's a handsome, 45 yr. old doctor. Does he still think/fantacize of me? If he saw me now would the sexual feelings be too much to overcome--he said once "it wouldn't take much" for something to happen. Yes, we're both married. That's why we don't see each other. No lectures please. I know.
2006-08-09 06:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He decided we couldn't see each other b/c something would happen & he doesn't want to hurt anyone. He's a good guy. I, however, would risk all for one night with him. Do you think if I showed up at his office after all this time something would happen b/t us sexually, even though we both know it's wrong?? Should I listen to my conscience or my heart and well you know?
2006-08-09 06:49:59 · update #1
Absence does make the heart grow fonder.
2006-08-09 06:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both apply.
You'll always be thinking about him, but you won't be thinking about how to spend time with him. It will just be a fantasy. But the one thing that is for certain, is that if you do see him again, you will be ecstatic.
As for what's going to happen, I say go for it. If something feels right, then it can't be wrong.
2006-08-09 06:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was taught " Out of Sight ... Out of Mind " I think it creates less stress for you ... in general ... !
As far as you and your situation ... I would let him be ... think about your husband and why you married in the first place ... think about what you can do to make the relationship better.
I wouldn't continue to talk to him if your feelings get stronger and stronger .. if they get out of control and you feel the need to leave your husband for him ... do that before you end up sleeping with him and cheating ... it's the respectable thing to do ... !
2006-08-09 06:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they generally move on to someone else....
I have been in the medical field for over ten years ---- doctor and patient flirtations and affairs are legendary....
2006-08-09 06:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, am in the same situation. what to do? All I know is if it were meant to be and you ever crosss paths agian you will definitly know it is meant to be...
2006-08-09 06:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know im trying to find out myself!
2006-08-09 06:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋