If I chat online with other women, is that cheating? We do talk about sex and stuff, but we don't actually do anything. I say cheating is a physical act, not a discussion. My girl says talking about it the same as doing it. That's like saying the recipe is as good as the food it makes.
2006-08-09 06:12:12 · 15 answers · asked by salty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good analagy... but if you love your gf [i assume you do] then respect her wishes of you not flirting with other women. now if it is just a conversation, not flirting, then its fine, and you should tell her that. and its not really what and what not is considered cheating, just more like what your partner is comfortable with.
i hope this helps
2006-08-09 06:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is 2 kinds of cheating. Physically cheating and Emotional cheating. In a way I think Emotional cheating is worse. Having sex is something that you could do with almost anybody, but when you are emotional cheating you are connecting with somebody else. Time in a relationship is valueable and if youre spending alot of time talking to the other person, your gf is getting left out while youre connecting with somebody else.
2006-08-09 06:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bothered by porn. But AM bothered by a married individual interacting in sexual manner with an individual other than their spouse, even if it is virtual. There is a REAL person on the other end of that conversation that's being fantasized about. Porn is fake...it doesn't even come close to real. When you masturbate to porn, you aren't working to get another person off. Talking sexually with someone else, that is EXACTLY what you're doing and i do consider it a form of cheating.
2016-03-27 05:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating ... unless you're an ape, wouldn't you feel bad if your girlfriend had a stable full of studs that she cybered with?
What it does is it cyphons off your natural sexual energy which would normally be "dumped" ( lol ) on her, and therefore continue to build the relationship.
You are changing the dynamic of your relationship when you chat, whether you think you are or not.
Go stand on a tall building. Go jump off the building. You are going to harm yourself on that pavement, whether you say you are or you are not. What you think does not control reality. Reality controls reality. Chat changes the relationship. Admit that to yourself as you continue to do it.
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2006-08-09 07:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda agree with your girl friend. I wouldn't name what your doing as cheating but I know if I were your girlfriend I wouldn't want that. While you may not be phisically cheating but rather talking about that, your girlfriend is probrably just woried that it may change to you physicaly cheating, (and that's normal). But then again I really don't know your whole situation... I would say that if you really like your girlfriend you should stop what your doing, if for no other reason but that it bothers her
2006-08-09 06:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by limegr15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...no comment ....but limits in relationships should only be drawn up by the 2 people involved ...maybe you need to ask why she sees this as cheating ..is she insecure ??.....have you cheated before?....has she been cheated on before ?...do ya get me ...only you two know the reasons
2006-08-09 06:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way are you cheating. I also define cheating as a physical act.
2006-08-09 06:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not cheating your having some 'adult fun'...........there is a thing called 'emotional cheating' tho. if you start having feelings for the woman your chatting to, then i would define that as emotional cheating
2006-08-09 06:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking dirty with this girl, then I would consider it a form of cheating.
2006-08-09 06:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's cheating but it could lead up to it, so be careful!
2006-08-09 06:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋