I met the bf away from home at college and I really think that he's "the one". Both families have met and everyone likes everyone. My mom still talks about "when we break up" and it gets on my nerves. I understand that she's trying to distance herself from the thought of the physical aspect that can come with a serious relatioship. It's like she cannot handle that I am taking this big step from puppy love and crushes to a rest-of-my-life-with-you relationship. I just need to new ideas about how to say that we're serious about each other, but not imply that we're doing what most college kids do (and we don't).
Thanks!!
2006-08-09 06:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you and your mom have a good enough relationship that you can actually have a heart to heart conversation, try asking for advice. Remind her that even though you're growing up that you still value her opinions. Also let her know what your "not" doing. That may make her attitude a little nicer. She may realize that you have values and actually listened to her advice from the past.
2006-08-09 06:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by lisaquinn9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have a heart to heart talk with your mom and tell her how you feel about this guy and as hard as it may be for her to accept the fact but, she will realize her "baby~girl" is growing up and she will deal with it and get over it and everything will work out! Good Luck!
2006-08-09 13:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and be up front and honest with her. If you discuss the situation with her, I am certain she will understand better.
2006-08-09 13:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be open and honest with her. your mom needs to understand that her baby is growing up and someday will need to leave the nest.
2006-08-09 13:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jacinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your mom that you really do love him and that he makes you happy. and that should mean alot to her.
2006-08-09 13:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don 't be afraid have faith in yourself
2006-08-09 13:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by garnessilva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋