I recently met this man (rob) online whom i am very attracted to. It has been brought to my attention by Joan whom use to be a co-worker of mine (she just joined the online website a few months ago) rob is joan's X/ daughter's father. We BOTH (joan & I) have a mutual friend whom I consider very dear to me (janice) that is how Joan and I met at work (I no longer work there) Joan and I have never hung out together nothing like that but we have talked. My problem is! I've been somewhat talking to this man and I am feeling very guilty because I know Joan is his X. He said it's not his X it's just his daughter mother...I haven not talk enough to ask him all the details. Need some advice...Is this a no no??? HELP!
2006-08-09 05:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by StartNOver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was this Yahoo! Questions or an episode of The Young and the Restless??
2006-08-09 06:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by racingcowboy58 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like rob, i think the best way is 4 u 2 talk to joan about the situation. let her know how u feel and that u dont want it 2 be a problem for her, and see what she says.
2006-08-09 13:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by xoannapieox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what I'd think of a guy who can call someone "his daughter's mother" but otherwise you have to decide how you feel about letting Joan tell you who you can and cannot date. He is her ex, which means that at least one of them doesn't want the other anymore, possibly both. To me that has always been enough room to do what I like.
2006-08-09 13:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should know u'r limits, assuming that u have set some for u'rself. This however sounds like a no no to me, are you saying that joan was never really a 'close friend' , u should probably talk to her and find out what happened u might be surprised. Do u'rself a favour and research some more. She probably met him online too!
2006-08-09 13:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by babybounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say he is off limits if he is single and wants to date you. Everybody has a past, and it just so happens that you know that lady. You don't work with Joan anymore, and you are not competing with her. Who cares if he is her x or daughter's father? What's the difference? They were together, now they are not. Fair game.
A man is only off limits when he is married or has a girlfriend.
2006-08-09 13:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off they are ex's and it is a personal choice you are going to have to make. I would be concerned if he says it is not his ex because there was some kind of relationship there if a child was produced. I would be careful and get to know him I have more worries about him.Listen to your inner you and make the choice that you can live with. Only you can answer that.
2006-08-09 13:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you're really Joan's friend then you can not date her ex/daughter's father.There's a code of friendship.But if you don't want anything more to do with Joan then go for it.
2006-08-09 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body has their own limits. You should know yours, if it is not good for you is off limits already.
2006-08-09 13:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!IN THE FIRST PLACE YOU SHOULD OF TOLD HIM
IN THE MN YOU FOUND OUT!BUT IT IS NOT HORRIBLE
MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL HIM!
2006-08-09 13:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋