I'm 18 and a virgin. I would say that being a virgin for my wife would be the ultimate wedding present for her on the wedding night.
True or FALSE?
2006-08-09 05:56:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is truly sweet of you! I envy the woman that you marry. It is true that a girl would rather have a male virgin.
2006-08-09 06:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really a matter of opinion I would say...some women would love for there husband to be a virgin on there wedding night (just make sure you know what the hell you're doing and you don't hurt her even more then it will). BUT, on the other hand some women want there virginity to be taken by someone that knows what they're doing...show them everything they know. So it's really a toss up.
2006-08-09 13:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would only have your word for it, as you cannot tell if a man is a virgin or not. I think many women would prefer a man to have a little experience. We don't want you to wonder, 10 years down the road, if you missed out on anything!
2006-08-09 13:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learn toward false. Your ultimate present should be love and respect.
Plus, if you have had experience, your wedding night might be more enjoyable as you can begin exploring your sexual life together with a modicum of knowledge.
2006-08-09 13:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to promote sex before marriage or anything but my ex was a virgin and when we got married he didn't know what the hell to even do with me and I ahd to teach him things. Personally its not for me. But not saying go out and be a male slut or any thing like that. If your gonna wait at least watch some porn or something so you can give her things that will please her...
2006-08-09 13:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by DeeLicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not wait until the wedding day b.c. most girls, like me, would not be able to last that long without it and will prob break up with you. i thi nk that once you kno that someone is the one then go for it. girls do like virgins b.c. the dont have any STDs. but ask the woman you are involved with first if she could wait
2006-08-09 13:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False. I dont want to have to go through the same things I did when I was young with inexperience when I get married. By that time both of us should have perfected our method.
2006-08-09 13:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE..Well, for me that’s kinda sweet for a man who is like that..most MEN don’t really care whether they be virgin for the one they ultimately be with…but it actually depends on one person’s values..it is rare nowadays and a few man are like this who stay virgin..most MEN think about losing their virginity to boost their ego and confidence..to make them feel more MANLY…they are obsessed about getting laid just to prove their manhood..otherwise most (or other males) may think they are losers because they haven’t had sex with more women or whatever..at a certain (legal) age..but I do know somebody..I friend of mine I met on the internet…he was like about 27 and he was a virgin and there was somebody he is about 24 at this time and chooses to remain a virgin until he get married..for the woman he marries..for HIM it is a belief that sex is sacred..it just depends on a persons morals and values..it’s not a sign of being a loser like most (male) people tend to think and label males who believe, think and do so..so don’t worry about it…you are a person with values..and no matter what goes on around you just stick to it…don’t let it bother you..I’m sure some girl will think that’s the sweetest thing..really special..she is indeed lucky to have you…’coz in the world and society we are in now..a few men are like that..that is something really special…whether MALE or FEMALE..it’s just all in people’s minds..and that I say is TRUE LOVE because you are saving it for your wife to be..it’s not about messing it up on the first time..you have spoiled it (the night) because you’re not experienced..who cares about that? You’ll do it right eventually..the love is there..if it is true nothing else matters..love will ultimately sustain everything..it all starts there..that’s the main reason you marry the person..you don’t marry a person because he is great and good in sex..it is an element that will satisfy you when he is experienced..but true love thinks and goes beyond that..you do SEX because you love that person..when you do SEX for the right person that is LOVE..otherwise it is known as LUST..a satisfaction of sexual desires then after that..nothing special you just leave the person and forget about it…the fulfillment of happiness and satisfaction didn’t last a long time..it was only temporary..for most people it’s all about proving something..or to gain acceptance..the fact that you are pure makes it extra special..if love is all around it doesn’t matter..purity is something to proud of not to be ashamed of..if degrading people are not ashamed about being a disgrace..why else would you be?? LOVE can be and is expressed through SEX as we know it..people do it whether they be married or not..it’s an option..some can’t wait and control it when their love for each other is so intense..they just do it..others do it in the name of LUST..but doing the same in the context of marriage makes it fine, noble and righteous..if you are a Christian with a sacred belief that’s how it is..if a MALE can be virgin for me then the better…yeah..that’s kinda sweet and very respectful to me as a woman as well..it’s not a bad thing or something to be laughed about..kudos!
It depends on the woman..because there are women who are so experienced that when they’re there..they want the man to be able to give it all to them at that moment..but on the other hand true love is unconditional..if you truly love the person..you will accept and love him for who and what he is…what he has..he believes in..otherwise that cannot be considered true love when you focus and consider only one aspect or area…we are there that sex is an element of marriage..to have a happy and fulfilled marriage you have to have a good sex life..your partner must be able to satisfy you sexually..sex is an act of love..for people who are bonded in its true context..the first night and the first time is not the basis of it….it is the beginning but it would not be like that all through out..only sex is an element of marriage but not the whole of it..love is greater than sex..and that’s the most important thing.. it cannot be a lie because it is that persons feeling and state of mind..what the mind wants and the heart feels for is the truth..and is not dependent and the result of other person’s state of mind..because that's what he feels for and that is not ruled by anybody's feelings or belief..they have their own..
Moreover you did not marry or will not marry a person because you think about what he can do or will happen on the first night..the first night will passed and experience is gained…you are special because you are the first and you are the one..plus you got a special person with values..people with morals are people with security and the ones who can give back security..ideals last a lifetime and in return can give you ultimate happiness..
2006-08-10 04:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FALSE...The best wedding gift you could give your wife is mind blowing sex. Do your future wife a favor and get some experience.
2006-08-09 13:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
False-- its priceless to us ONLY if we are a VIRGIN too~ We like a dude with some MILES~ (Just how you guys like the female)
2006-08-09 13:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋