my boyfrand lives in clevland ms and he as another girlfrand where he lives that i never knew anything about !! so i called him and he said who is this i said take a wild guess then he said ohhh hey SHELBY i said who is shelby then he said nobody .so i got his frand to ask and he has another girlfrand what should i do
2006-08-09 05:21:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are attempting to have a long distance relationship at your age? Not a good idea.
Dump him and find someone close to you.
2006-08-09 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him! He's a dirty cheater. (don't be mad at the other girl though, because she probably thought he was single and didn't even know about you - but if you find out she did know about you, you have every right to be mad). If you stay with him, and say he says he breaks up with this girl - how do you really know he did?? And furthermore, how do you know he won't do it again?? There's no way to trust him ever again, people who cheat do not deserve second chances. Because that's not some stupid little mistake, or some little dumb lie. He willingly cheated on you no matter what he says, he was willing to be dishonest, he was willing to take a chance that you might find out. I would never stay with him. I think breaking up with him is your only real option, if you don't - it's never gonna be a perfectly happy relationship, because you'll never be able to trust him. Take care!
2006-08-09 05:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A healthy relationship MUST be based in trust, if you can not trust your partner, then is not a healthy relationship, you can not have great expectations from this relationship, because you will be always tormented about what he is doing, and the conflicts between you two are going to spoil whatever you both have, so don't try to get more, if you want something better or different, go somewhere else.
2006-08-09 05:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is probably a really nice - genuine young chap with a healthy love for the female form. Get him to invite his other ladies around and all have some fun together. Go on - let yourself go and he'll love you forever.
2006-08-09 05:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by AdviseLine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chris had it right - go get a new b/f and start telling your Cleveland idiot about how much better in bed the new guy is; if he doesn't break up with you then, dump him just for being too stupid to manage two women in two different towns.
2006-08-09 05:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you still want him, even after this serious fault.
Set your own boundaries and make them clear to him. If you say it's not allowed to have other girlfriends, then he can decide whether he wants a relation under this condition.
Problem is, normally people don't talk about these things and they are quite often not really clear for everybody.
2006-08-09 05:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by leatherbiker040 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now your voice sounds like shelby's? He doesnt even know the difference dear but you do so move on.
Stop wasting your time on this moron. There is always someone out there who will recognise your voice even in his sleep and in his dreams.
Move it.
2006-08-09 05:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him!!! He's cheating on you so tell him to pick between you and Shelby! You deserve to be treated right!! You Go Girl!
2006-08-09 05:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by *HOTTIE* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go back and read your question and hopefully you will realize how unbelievably stupid your "boyfriend" is. If you honestly consider this person your boyfriend you would not be needing to worry about things of this nature! Break the hell up with him...FAST!
2006-08-09 05:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Molly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should considre breaking up with him and finding someone of your own where you live. You can even not break up with him since he already thinks it's ok to date other people and must think the relationship is over anyway.
2006-08-09 05:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋