When you watch porn do you compare the women you look at with your girlfriends. My boyfriend watches alot of porn and i'm worried
2006-08-09 05:08:54 · 19 answers · asked by toots 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, when I watch porn I don't compare the women to my g/f - instead I imagine we are doing what I am seeing.
Well - sometimes not - some of that stuff is pretty wild, even for ME.
She loves it when I have been watching porn. Knows I've had the motor warmed up and am in the mood (she is ALWAYS in the mood!) and she doesn't waste a second, either.
Nope, Toots, don't worry. He's just tuning his motor and YOU know where the accelerator is.
2006-08-10 07:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Der Lange 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't compare the porn stars to your actual girlfriends. There is no way he would ever be able to hook up with them and so don't worry bout him leaving you for a porn star.
I think allowing him to watch porn might be an issue though, seeing as how he might treat women as objects. This would not be good for your future relationship seeing as how he might abuse or take advantage of you. I would recommend not allowing him to watch porn or dumping him because of it.
2006-08-09 12:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by trrocks03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will definitely have an ideal image in their heads and not only that they will want the same porn star performance in the sack. Some guys get addicted to porn so badly that they couldn't care less if the girlfriend walks out or not, cos they know their porn DVD's won't, and thats a problem. I would tell him its you or the artificial thing. He can't have both
2006-08-09 12:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Brendon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most of us prefer real women to porn stars anyway! Don't worry about the porn, all guys like a bit of it!
2006-08-09 18:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting thoughts.
1) when I watch porn I don't compare the men to my husband.
2) when my husband watched porn I assume he is comparing the women to me.
Why do you think that is?? I wonder if is thinks I am comparing him to them too? Interesting thoughts.
2006-08-09 12:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope...there's no comparison going on there at all. course, i dont really watch porn, since i have a gf, but i did in a past relationship, and there's no comparing going on. its just a matter of enacting a fantasy and stimulation. so as long as you have a fulfilling sex life with him, id say you have nothing to worry about. its when porn starts to take away from you and rule his life that it becomes a concern.
2006-08-09 12:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** no, the women in porn are sex crazed nymphos that will one day spawn std ridden children...my girlfriend is not. Porn is purely for entertainment for me...the women in porn don't looks as hot minus the full body make-up btw.
2006-08-09 12:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends, sometimes when I watch when I'm about to reach the climax I immediately think of this one girl I used to be with doing to me what the pornstar on the screen is doing, so it varies, it's not a bad thing.
2006-08-09 12:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sagely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are really sick,any one watching porn knows that it is total fantasy.ergo the women arent real in the sense of their sexual appetites or preferences.knowing this,you shouldnt worry.
2006-08-09 12:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by danny t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope - I'm not sure I want my woman to be shagging other men for money - but that doesn't stop me really enjoying porn.
2006-08-09 12:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by AdviseLine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋