2006-08-09 05:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My Mom has told me all my life about this man and the possibility of him being my father. I contacted him through my aunt, and made clear to him that all i wanted was a paternity test. He was friendly and game almost as if he knew he was my father. I hear that I look alot like his family. I paid for the DNA, I am on the west coast he's in the east, but somehow his wife found out. She flipped! She sent me an e-mail saying that I've caused alot of drama in their homes, that there are too many people that this would hurt. He sent me an e-mail saying to please not contact him anymore( I think it is her writing). I don't want to give up.
2006-08-09 05:27:46 · update #1
Two words...Court Ordered.
2006-08-14 09:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good approach with guys (in almost any setting by the way) is to be factual.
I want to know who my dad/father really is.
I want to know about family health issues. Heart, lung, blood diseases, what are the things I need follow up on in my own health.
If you are a minor he/she may be concerned about child support issues - not saying they shouldn't be - just noting it might "hinder" his willingness to cooperate.
Best of luck to you
2006-08-09 05:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by charlie_2you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him for your sake and if he approves great if not oh well and then act like you dontcare I mean really he has to care a lil bit you could be his daughter
2006-08-09 05:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by chameli/bebo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.If he says no call montel Williams on him
2006-08-09 05:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know it's important for you to find out where you came from.
2006-08-09 05:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋