Ok me and my ex broke up over a yr ago and we becase good friends afterwards and we talked everyday until about 2 months ago I stopped talking to her. Well i wanted her sister to give her her stuff back for me cuz her sister and i are close. I gave here sister the stuff and she threw it away but what she told me was that she gave it to my ex and i know its not true cuz it took her a week to tell me and my ex would have certainly retaliated. Her sister doesnt want us talking, when we were together her sister kept asking me why am i with her, her sister told me to stop caring and worryin about my ex. She also told my ex to stop talking to me b4 all of this happened. Why would she throw away the stuff? My ex has a b/f so it shouldnt bother her that im giving the stuff back right? And her sister has a husband so its not like she wanted me. Can someon plzz explain whats goin on here.
2006-08-09 04:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Incase this seems to be confusing ppl...brie (the sister) didnt want me and my ex (britt) to talk or have ne kind of communication...she told me not to talk to her ansd she told her sis not to talk to me...i wanted to give my ex her stuff back and brie threw it away cuz for some reason she didnt want britt to get her stuff back...and the stuff i gave back was very very sentamental in our relationship...the items meant alot to both of us
2006-08-09 05:00:09 · update #1
Awww.. you're such a sentimental guy. Well, i guess her sis is jealous that she've got such a good guy. And she's envy both of you still can be good friends after breaking up. .. Hm, you never know jealousy can kill. Haha... Good luck!
2006-08-09 05:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
why are u giving back her stuff now? did she ask for it? it sounds to me like the sister is looking out for ur ex's best interest.. which is to NOT think about u "sentimentally" in Any way... do u know if she took it very hard? perhaps she confided in her sister how hurt, sad, depressed, and lonely she felt when u guys broke up..and now that everyone has moved on, if u try to give her back "sentimental" stuff, it might open up the floodgates again. there's gotta be more to this.. are u doing it now because she asked for it? or because u kind of secretly want ur ex to remember the good times and "warm up" to u again? u may not THINK ur doing anything wrong, but the best thing to do is let it lie. and why did u stop talking to her all of a sudden anyways? overall, ur actions just don't really make too much sense. i'm not saying ur a bad guy, but u need to stop playing girls around like a yo yo.... i'm sure to ur ex, talking to u everyday still made her happy. but when u stopped talking to her, she may have been really hurt AGAIN. and after a few months of non-communication, u are totally trying to make her remember u again! this is a no no.. u should thank the sister for throwing it away, because she is protecting her..she is trying to help her sister forget the past. if u really care about these people, u have to do what is BEST for them...even if it is letting the past go.
2006-08-09 12:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sister shouldn't have throwed it away that was wrong. If she didn't want to give it to your ex she could have just put it in a closet or somewhere in her home for safe keeping. Maybe her sister thought if your ex seen the stuff it would make her sad and start thinking about your and hers relationship. So the sister thought by getting rid of it that it would help her sister (your ex) move on and not dwell on the past.
2006-08-09 12:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by raindrop_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she didn't approve of your relationship - that maybe she felt that you were just clinging to this relationship however you could (which I tend to agree). If it has taken you this long to give her stuff back, then obviously you were not committed to ending the relationship. Take the sister's hint - move on. She is indirectly trying to encourage you and the sister to become adults - by moving on. There is no such thing as one true love - there are litteraly hundreds, if not thousands of people out there that we could have meaningful and lasting relationships with - as long as we can get away from this thinking that there is only one "perfect match" out there for us, and fully commit ourselves to the one we are with.
Don't believe me - try it. Stop obsessing about your ex, and rejoin the rest of society. Meet and mingle a little. It may take a couple of months, but guess what - you will meet someone else.
2006-08-09 12:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she might be jealous of the relationship that you and Britt had? Maybe she's a very hurtful person and doesn't want to see her sister happier than her. I know it might sound crazy but my stepsister is like that. Apparently you still like this girl or you wouldn't care so much. Whether you still want to be with her or not. Talk to Brittany and tell her what happened. Get your girl back if you want her. If not leave it alone.
2006-08-09 12:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by hellrazor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the sister wants you.
2006-08-09 12:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the sis is crazy
2006-08-09 12:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mare. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confused....that's what you need straighten out first.....then you see that they all dint want you to bother them......
2006-08-09 12:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋