2006-08-09 04:44:36 · 22 answers · asked by Javier R 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
here's a tip: kiss her cheek first and you'll know whether or not she wants a serious kiss, she'll give you the sign.
And even more importantly: make sure you show her a good time during your date, or she won't wanna kiss you, not even on the cheek!
2006-08-09 05:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Foxy 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
First date? First Kiss? That depends how the date goes. If she`s shy be sure to give her some time. In some cases holding hands on the first date might be better. That way you could find out how she feels. If it feels like holding hands is to much, don`t kiss her. That way you give her a little space and she doesn`t feel used while you do your detective work.
Good luck!
P.S. From experience! not every girl whats a lot of tongue action if its their first kiss. Lip kiss first, see how she reacts.! dont be an animal! right ladies?
2006-08-09 04:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by rolandtroy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should make the first move, if it seems like she's interested. You can tell that she is if she is leaning towards you, if she's playing with her hair while you talk, if she keeps looking into your eyes and then looking away, and ESPECIALLY if she keeps looking at your lips and sometimes licks her own lips. Body language is a good way to tell if someone is attracted. If she touches your hand or arm a few times. that's also a good sign. Leave it at a kiss though. If you go any further, it's no longer an indication that you are attracted--it's an indication that you think she's easy.
2006-08-09 04:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first date is going good and you both are getting good vibes, then go for it (girls like it when the guy makes the first move). Otherwise just hold off and wait till the 2nd or 3rd date to kiss her.
2006-08-09 04:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by sndtrkman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really into her and want her to know, then plant one on her. But if the date didn't go as smoothly as you like, just kiss her politely on the hand, cheek, or forehead and ask for another date. If there is a future for you two, then there will be plenty of opportunities later.
2006-08-09 04:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt to ask, and if you are charming enough when you do it could turn the tide and get you a kiss you wouldn't have otherwise gotten.
Also, even fairly modern girls rarely expect to kiss you first. She could end up thinking you are not interested if you wait.
2006-08-09 05:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jen square 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women never give the first kiss. It is part of their game, that is, to make you come and get it, chase them, pursue them, etc. And if all goes well, in about two months, she will be asking, "why don't you kiss me anymore?" but it still hasn't crossed her mind to initiate things for a change.
2006-08-09 04:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by commonsense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how the date is going...If it's just a dining thing may be u won't get the chance..You can give her a kiss to d cheek when ur going..But if it's a movie sorta thing then you can try getting closer to her...and if she doesnt show any resistance you can go on with kissing..
2006-08-09 05:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by radikal_zee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a girl, i would give you signals to if i wanted to be kissed or not. you can definitely tell. and if you dont get those signals forrrr sure, do NOT kiss her on the first date. big mistake.
2006-08-09 06:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girls do make the first move some times, i have plenty of times, i'm not sure if guys are into that but??? i like makeing the first move cause guys dont expect it. and yeah most girls are fine with kissing on the first dat (i am) but make sure she seems into it first.
2006-08-09 05:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋