Been with a girl for almost 3 months now. Falling in love but feel it is to early to tell her, but it has almost slipped out of my mouth several times. How early is to early and when is the right time to tell her?
2006-08-09 04:41:43 · 21 answers · asked by TMat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish there was a simple answer. The problem is that you dont want to scare her off. If she's the kind of girl that likes to take things slow and is afraid to commit then you just need to wait it out. As a rule of thumb i would always try to wait a little longer than you want to, because a) thats playing it safe and b) it gives you more of a chance to be sure about it. You just kind of need to feel it out for yourself. goodluck.
2006-08-09 04:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a month and I'm in love with him. I told him right when I started getting the I cant breathe without you feelings. I know sometimes you don't want to come on too strong. But its easier to get it out. AND YOU DON'T KNOW MAYBE SHES FEELING THE SAME EXACT WAY.
2006-08-09 11:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How old is she? What time does the sky change colors? Seriously, if you love her and have a relationship based on trust, tell her. This isn't some game, it's your life. It's better to know how your bf feels than to wonder if there is a future. I know you want to know how she feels, don't wait for her to tell you first. Games don't work in relationships.
2006-08-09 11:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's time U'll know.... The words will just roll out of Ur mouth...
Don't freak out if she doesn't say she loves U too.
Sometimes it takes other people longer to admit their true feelings.
Just tell her what's in Ur heart, she'll appreciate knowing how much she means to U.
Good Luck
2006-08-09 11:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, for serious, when you feel it and believe it. there's no expiration date on love. i told my gf i was falling for her after about two and a half months, and came out with "I am so deeply in love with you" after four. but don't force it. remember, when you say something like that, you dam* well better mean it, or it could end up doing more damage than good in the long run.
2006-08-09 11:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how early is too early, but you should probably tell her after you do something nice for her or she's in a happy mood.
2006-08-09 11:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by SithGirl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that loving a person is very special so if you dont feel it then dont say it but since u really feel it im guessing she does to so when yal are really having a good time with eachother just look into her eyes and say it. make it romantic for the first time saying i love you. whisper it into her ear or something.
2006-08-09 12:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel the time is right...but not on the first day yall are going out. That just makes you sound desparate.
2006-08-09 11:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead tell her that you love her it's not to early!my boyfriend told me the second day we were together and we have been together for like three months two!
2006-08-09 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by onlygodcanjudgeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime is the right time when you are ready. It's never too early.
2006-08-09 11:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋