making love?

Question

As a general rule

Making love, cuddles, romantic evening together, picnics, quality time and being in love are so much better than just

one off sex,

so why does the media and our lives, suggest we like crap meaningless sexual relationships.

Answer 1

where are you??? God I wish you were in my city , you sound almost perfect. x x

Answer 2

the media is like you taking photographs and months or maybe years later looking back and thinking how rosey everthing was in your life (which you only do when youve had heart broken)

well wat im saying is you dont capture the ugly moments the fighting the shouting arguing the fall outs,cause if you did then these are the pics that would make you feel warm and fluffy again as you would see that through all the fighting you came out the end stronger and happier,
the media only take the sh*te bits in life and publish them when was the last time you saw a happing cupple just relaxing in the park on a warm sunny day in the papers with a nice heading????

Answer 3

To sell us things. To ge us to whiten our teeth, smear crap on our skin, buy a more powerful car, a more uplifting bra--all so we can keep attracting people on the basis of our store-bought sexiness and then listen to the sad or revengeful songs they sell us to help us get over our unsatisfactory "relationships." They don't make any profit from cuddles, romantic evenings at home, picinics, or quality ime. They make money keeping you in a perpetual state of "Can't get no satisfaction"(emotionally and spiritually) so you figure you've got to buy something of theirs to compete with all the other consumers chasing what, in the end, can't be bought or sold--real love.

Answer 4

Sometimes you can have sex with the same person that you make love with. It's not all cuddles and spooning, sometimes you want to be up against a wall getting some gotta-have-you-know-or-I'll-die action...it's all part of exploring your sexuality.

Sex can be as meaningless as you want it to be. Personally, I find it much easier to explore my sexuality monogamously with someone I totally trust, it makes it so much easier. But surrendering to lust can be delicious!

Answer 5

Well Love Should Be Like What You Have Just Listed But Not All Guys Are Like You

Answer 6

Instant gratification.
That explains our destructive trend toward fast food, drugs, consumer purchases in general.
We believe that an instant (normally purchased) experience will be fulfilling - or at least we are persuaded so by commercial media. In actual fact, the harder you work for something, the more rewarding the outcome is.

Answer 7

I think its only a small magority that likes that, but us British people like to go out on the weekends and meet people in bars and clubs, and i think sometimes it just ends up as meaningless sex i think, some people tho just want that, thats why most people go out on the pull, just for sex.

In my opinion i couldnt just go out and hope to find some random girl to like who i dont know, i have to know them first to want to be with them.

Answer 8

I think because there are honestly lots of people who do want that. I dont, i would much rather have everything else that comes along with being in a relationship. Its so much more meaningful when you have everything.

Answer 9

Making love ... as in romantic meal, soft lights and music, candles etc. etc. ... is great if you have a "love of your life"

A quickie, no-strings ... is great to "scratch an itch"

Any offer is greatly appreciated ... but I prefer my sexual encounters to have some sort of meaning - you're getting naked and personal with a member of the opposite sex (my preference anyway!) so it should mean something!!

Answer 10

Well the media's got to have something to talk about these days I guess.

Answer 11

FOLLOW THE MONEY. Sex sells. Advertising is where the money is made. Sex is used to sell alcohol, cars, clothes, everything. One thing puzzles me; what is used to sell sex, a car?