ive been having a recurring idea with dreams ive been having lately. its of my boyfriend. he shows great passion and love for me in reality but in dreams i find him cheating with sumone else.. not sexually, just kissing, holding hands and the such and its really disturbing me alot. does anyone have an idea or kno what it means when you dream about a loved one cheating on you, when its a recurring idea in dreams?
2006-08-09 04:29:51 · 14 answers · asked by Dana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you are insecure.
2006-08-09 04:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you ate some really bad pizza before bed, you have been watching waaaayy too much Lifetime television or more than likely you are having insecurity issues.
Do oyu know someone who is going through something like this with infidelity? Have you been watching movies or televison shows where this is a recurring theme? I used to have dreams like that a lot, I did not realize for a while that I had been watching a lot of television and this was a theme in a lot of the shows and movies I was seeing. What you expose yourself to 'feeds' your brain and plants seeds of insecurity or whatever the themes are and without you even realizing it your brain will begin to play out, either while waking or sleeping, scenarios that make no logical sense. Also, how long have you been together. Have you had a bad experience in the past that would cause you to start feeling insecure at a certain point in your relationship?
2006-08-09 04:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really into dreams and lucid dreaming.
Firstly I think that you are having this reoccuring dream because it might be a hear in your subconscious mind. I don't blame you. When you have such a loving relationship you always worry about what can happen and what your afraid of. So in the back your mind you think that its too good to be true. Sometimes the back of your mind stores things that not conscious about.
If these dreams are really bothering you, I can suggest that you look into lucid dreaming. Where you can practice to control you dreams and over come these recurring dreams. www.ld4all.com.
Its obvious that your not afraid of him being sexually active. Sicne you see him kssing, holding hands that means your afraid of him LOVING someone else because he probably shows you how he loves a lot. And you really love in reality. So your not afraid of him totally cheating on you but your afraid of him falling in love with a better person then you and treating them so kindly instead.
Also, this mind state might also tell you how much you appericate his love for you. Because you know he's a good person and he threats people right.
Goodluck.
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2006-08-09 04:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew exactly what that meant, but I have had similar dreams about my husband cheating or being with another woman. The dreams I have are very vivid and in the morning I usually wake up good and pissed off, as if it had really happened. I have found that when I watch certain movies or shows, that involve cheating, those types of dreams come more frequently. I don't think it has anything to do with what is really going on in your waking hours, it is just a subconscious message. You cannot control what you dreams, no matter what you try and do, but I don't think there is any real meaning there. I know my husband would never stray on me as he has in my dreams, so I just take it as a reminder to tell him what I dreamed about and let him know how much I love him...
2006-08-09 04:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is dream of trust.
A trust of yourself. You probably don't trust yourself over him. You have some issue with man. You may be afraid of losing him. That is why you project that cheating image in your subconscious mind. And you want to own him in reality.
That is why you have this kind of dream
2006-08-09 04:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you don't love him and that's what you want to happen...you're afraid that he's cheating on you...or you just have some really dramatic dreams. If you love him and trust him then believe that, because apparently you don't or you just don't want him at all.
2006-08-09 05:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feeling insecurity about your relationship and is having a hard time either because you fear you will lose him or you are not sure about your self. why not talk to him about these dreams see what you guys come up with.
2006-08-09 04:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams have absolutely NOTHING to do with reality,they're dreams for Christ's sake!
2006-08-09 04:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have insecurities about your relationship.
You probably question your B/F's motives for wanting to be with you.
You need to get it in check before it drives you crazy.
2006-08-09 04:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just your own insecurity. Talk to him about it. It's always best to be able to talk about everything.
2006-08-09 04:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Gregg J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a dream sweetie
2006-08-09 04:34:51 · answer #11 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋