2006-08-09 04:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and you know what sis, this is the same question I have been asking! so when you find your mister right, you let me know what you did! lol I think that womanly sensed, we know when its the right time for us to have someone, and right now just might not be a good time for you. Become much more focused on you and YOUR surroundings, and how to prepare yourself ethically, morally, and adequately for the next relationship that you may encounter. I always think about things that arent too expectant, but always have standards set...if you dont, you will never find anyone to meet them--and never settle for less if you want something you should always go with what your HEART tells you.
2006-08-09 04:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by ~*SpHyRyT*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't always the RIGHT guy. But there is always one that is close. So make sure your not keep standards for your future guy. Just let loose and keep you options open. Sometimes the most wrongful guy can become mr right when you fall in love with him. The worst thing to do it seek someone that you made in your mind....if you keep that out of your head....you'll find someone with time. Concentrate on your life because mr lover boy will show up when you least suspect it.
Goodluck
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2006-08-09 11:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, before we get to your question, i want u to think about this first:
are you confident in urself? do u feel beautiful, smart, and healthy? are u positive in ur ability to be a great, awesome girlfriend? are you a strong, dependable, trustworthy woman? are u able to maintain and grow healthy relationships w/ friends, family, and even strangers? if not, first take the time to work on urself. the better u are, the more happy, positive, confident, and AWESOME u are, the more you will be worth. to yourself, AND people around you. the question here is, are YOU right and ready for a wonderful guy?
once that's done, and u are happy and confident in urself, then u are ready! you are ready to be a GREAT girlfriend for some lucky guy, right? now, set some boundaries, what do u want in a man? when u go out on dates, if any of them make u feel any sort of negativity, or make u feel uncomfortable, or bad about urself, *because* u are so confident that u are worth it, u won't take anything less than the best. not because u are cocky, but because you worked on urself, and therefore u are worth being treated Well. there's NOTHING wrong w/ wanting to be treated well, when u are positive that u would treat ur partner well. so u use those boundaries u have to filter out the negative, or just guys who are not right for u, and u keep the positive ones around. that's gonna take time, cuz not many people are willing and able to satisfy all of ur needs. it's gonna be someone truly special and Awesome, because you are Awesome too.
so in looking for the right one, u have to first find out and be positive that YOU are the right one. that way, when a guy treats u badly, u'll be able to stand up for urself and know that ur worth better. and it's not about loving or caring about eachother, cuz u can care about someone but not know how to treat them right. some guys or girls are clueless of how to satisfy their partner. but u need to find someone who is Willing and Able to be what u want, and work on the things that aren't there yet. that is what u are looking for, someone u can grow with and learn from eachother... if it takes time, so be it! if u want someone special, u can't just get w/ anyone...u have to expect things from urself, and expect things from ur partner. and ther'es NOTHING wrong with that, as long as u keep eachother accountable.
2006-08-09 11:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably because you just havent met him yet. Sometimes it takes time to find the right match. I know its hard but try to be patient. Often times it is a good idea to write down exactly what you are looking for in a mate. It helps to be more objective.
2006-08-09 11:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by proffalken1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't ready. I know the feeling. Relax, be yourself, flirt and find yourself first. I know it's tempting to take the leap and really want a guy (any guy) but you need to trust yourself before you can trust a guy. In other words, find out what you want in a guy and the rest will come in time.
2006-08-09 11:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the 'right guy' for you? I keep hearing this all the time...The right guy is the guy who will be with you through thick or thin, share your problems with you and be there for you when you need him...is this what you are looking for??? Tough luck girl....they don't make them like they used to...most of them are mama's boy!!! But keep trying...you'll hit the jackpot someday!
2006-08-09 11:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes patience and time. Whatever you do...don't lower your standards if it means just not being alone anymore. The one you want is out there somewhere. I went through many before I met my perfect match at the age of 26. My best friend met hers at 40. Just hang in there.
2006-08-09 11:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by green is clean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually finding is not a problem.... the things get hard once you have found him/her and discover that he/she wants nothing more than friendship(or nothing at all) and tells you that he/she can tell you for sure that he/she WILL NEVER go for you. That is the step I am stuck on at the moment :S
2006-08-09 11:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by a dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out there.. jsut be patient ... everyone has their soul mate... you just can't find him unitl you go through a few wrong ones...
2006-08-09 11:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u r not rite gurl 4 ne1
2006-08-09 11:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by fundoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋