2006-08-09 04:25:56 · 49 answers · asked by sircumalot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women aren't hard to approach. It's your own confidence level that needs help.
If the girl in question seems really cold towards you, it's on purpose. We know how to be friendly when we are interested, and we know how to be cool and bored when we're not.
Find yourself a girl that's warm and open when you talk to them. If you aren't talking to anyone, that's your own fault. You'll never get any results if you are too scared/nervous to make even the tiniest first move.
2006-08-09 04:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just an assumption. Women are all the same whether beautiful or butt ugly. Men can feel inadequate if they judge themselves as being too ugly / poor / stupid to talk to the women they see.
To use a 'score' you wouldn't feel comfortable talking to a '10' if you feel like a '5'.
Remember that some beautiful women are just as insecure as everyone else.
On the other hand, when a woman becomes used to being told how gorgeous and amazing they are, they can become real bitches. In this case you should approach and give subtle insults about their hair / face / weight to knock them down a peg or two.
2006-08-09 04:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think the same.
I worked at one place where the bosses secretary was so drop dead gorgeous that I really fancied her. One day, we had been in the social club at lunch time, and had a couple of pints, and she had been sat at the other side of the room reading a book. We left at about the same time, and as we were walking back to the office, with the aid if dutch courage, I manage to splutter out a few words, which quickly turned into a short conversation which ended up in a date. On he date, she almost raped me, and later came round to my flat quite often.
There was a second similar case too. Eventually I managed to approach gorgeous women without the aid of alcohol, and had quite a few enjoyable successes.
Just go for it. Ask em all. If only one says yes, its better than none.
2006-08-16 10:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure of that until you try and imagine if she is thinking the same thing as you... you might never see each other again or next time one of you might be with someone else and then you will always wonder what could have been... Life is too short for "what ifs" and anyway you can't lose something that you haven't got yet. So what have you got to lose? Make the first move you might be pleasantly surprised...
2006-08-09 04:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by beachbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with good looking ladies is that most men when they look at them think wrongly that they are out of their league at the end of the day we are all humans so we should all be able to talk to each other no matter how good looking / famous /or Even ugly we are
2006-08-14 09:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by paul s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being conceited, about myself in anyway, but when I go to a club or go to girls night out events I am always being hit on. It's not that we are unapproachable, some guys just wont talk to us in fear of rejection. You never know unless you try. There are lots of times that I wont approach a guy for the same reason. We read into things that aren't there.
2006-08-09 04:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know about where your from but here in a small east tennesse conservative bush country town the women are snoddy as hell. they are so proud of themselves. they take one look at a guy and they can smell if he has money or not. Unfortunetely it has to do with what you have in you r pocket not your rocket. or who you are inside. women here are scared. their afraid to talk to strangers not matter what you look like.
unlike living out on the west coast where women are very much more approachable and open-minded.
2006-08-09 04:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they know they can get any man and can't be bothered to be nice to those who don't interest them? Maybe I'm not sure... don't let it put you off though, if you go for looks you'll have to go for it.... if you don't go for looks but personality, if these women give you the feeling they're unapproachable, they probably don't have the best personalities!
good luck x
2006-08-09 04:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuck up I guess. But to be honest when I spend time putting myself together I do not want to be approached by someone who did not return the favor. It is the ultimate insult to an attractive woman for a sloppy unattractive man to try to hit on her.
2006-08-16 11:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define good looking Women???
2006-08-09 04:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋