OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just found out my best guy friend is gay!!!!!!!!!! And he had a gf!! but he dont talk, walk, act, or anything regarding someone gay!! What can I do, he lied, no I never asked him if he was gay, but I never thought to, OMG. what can I do. I dont know if I can have a best friend that is gay and he lied to me about it. OMG
2006-08-09 04:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ah kick him in the nuts i hate gays
2006-08-09 05:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is somewhat stereotyping. You can't base on how someone walks or talks or acts that they are gay anyways. Maybe he didn't lie. Maybe he is bi, or the reason he went out with a girl was because he might have been confused. Or he wanted to experiment.
2006-08-09 11:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by raindrop_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, the question you have to ask yourself is did he "really" lie about it, or is this something that he has figured out over the time of which he's known you... Because I've known several people in my life that have realized that they were gay while I was being friends with them... Now, there is nothing wrong with that, and actually I was quite proud of them to be honest and true to themselves for once in their lives....
Be best friends with him still... Love him like a brother... He's still your friend, nothing has really changed about him.... he just realized a peice of the puzzle that makes him, him... and you should respect that one...
2006-08-09 11:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably lied cuz he knew you'd flip out like you're flippin out right now. so sure he lied, but if it was about his sexual preference, it's gonna be natural that he's gonna have his insecurities about comin out of the closet. & if he is gay, then that means your best friend is now a girl in a way. so take him as he is & support him if he needs you to
2006-08-09 11:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...the fact that he didn't tell you shouldn't ruin a friendship. that's probably why he didn't tell you. please don't be shallow enough to let something like that ruin such a great friendship. in a world filled with discrimination, homophobia, and hate crimes, he was probably protecting himself by not saying anything. also, he doesnt have to "act gay" to be gay. i'd say accept him for who he is, and continue the friendship as if nothing has changed, because really, it hasn't.
2006-08-09 11:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i DON'T SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.. He is gay so what.. maybe he did not tell you because look how you are acting now.. you don't want to be his freind b/c he is gay, that is not right he is still the same person!
2006-08-09 11:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. His orientation isn't about you. Plenty of people come out after trying the "standard" life for a while.
2006-08-09 11:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by cr329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋