well after a night with this guy i really like him, he gave me his number, and he asked me more than 3 times that i should call him.
shouldnt he call me instead? he used to be in the army maybe hes used to being called and written to. but this isnt the army anymore. should i call him? i really dont wanna seem like im needy or clingy.
thanks for all your kind answers : )
2006-08-09 04:15:29 · 27 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If people would just do things instead of thinking so much, life would be so simple. If he asked you to call him, then why don't you call him. Who cares who calls who, as long as you are in contact with each other. If you like this guy then call him, stop thinking so much about what he is going to think.
2006-08-09 04:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him. Obviously he wants you too. I called mine all the time because he wouldn't call me. He never minded. Thank goodness. Otherwise we wouldn't have been together for 20 years if one of us never took the initiative.
I know some old fashioned people will tell you that a guy should pursue, but this is 2006 and not 1950 anymore. We, as women, have developed to think for ourselves and go after what ever it is we want.
2006-08-09 11:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea Sure call him, But only do it once. If he likes you he will call you again. Because if he is interested in you, He will want to talk to you. I would only call once though , seriously. And I am a girl that hates calling guys.LOL But its tough, so I would only do it once. And I dont think the Army has anything to do with it, Because Ive dated a few guys in the Army and they always called me. I actually think that guys get some pleasure from the girl calling them. I dont we will never understand, But yea call him ONCE, PLEASE DONT ALWAYS CALL HIM!! LOL
2006-08-09 11:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by army_guysturnmeon_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just call him the first time and then after that...make him call you a few times....he probably just wants to make sure that u really r interested in him or he is too scared to call you.....if he thinks your needy...so what....who cares what he thinks
2006-08-16 16:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stick to the traditions and be old fashioned then tell him your old fashioned and you would prefer he call you instead.
if you dont make breaking boundaries, call him. alot of guys these days like it when the girl pursues....this way they dont have to face rejection.
If you like him and think its worth a shot, go ahead and give him a call and get to know him alittle better....try it!
Good luck!
2006-08-17 09:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by workn2live22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is ok to call him because he said so and maybe he is shy and wants you to make the first move so he doesn't make a fool out of himself if you are not interested. i think some guys get scared and need that extra reassuarnce that the girl is interested in them and a phone call is the encouragement he may need.
2006-08-17 04:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait 2 days to call him then call him and act casual and just have a little conversation. Hope this helps!
2006-08-09 11:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by sophia j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should call him. Men don't see things like a woman does, if we tell you to call we expect a phone call. Men get sick and tired of doing everything or doing everything first.
2006-08-09 11:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by nshappe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call the guy, nothing is wrong with the woman making the first move, You've already spent a night with him, so what they hey? Go for it.
2006-08-16 19:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait about a week to call, but it's ok call first. If you do wait a week and then call him, but he doesn't call you back, (you have to be the first to call again) then he is probably not interested.
2006-08-09 11:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋