i look at one of my guy friends and think why can't he see me as just more than a friend! my friends have all asked him do you think of her as more and the answer is always more! he is very ice and respectful to the ladies and cares about everybody! that is my type of man! i don't see why he doesn't like me!
2006-08-09 04:10:58 · 15 answers · asked by pink_paradise_1022 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah and could you help me!
2006-08-09 04:11:28 · update #1
You must be a teenager. you are always good enough. You need a self esteem booster. I am 25 years old, believe me you will know what you are worth. I would just go and talk to him. If he's not interested he will let you know. If your to nervous, start flirting and notice his body language. I used to be like that when I was a teenager, I would think oh he's to hot for me, or what if I embarrass myself and he doesn't feel the same way I do. I see the same guys now and have to beat them off with a stick turning them down. I wish I had the confidence in myself then that I do now.
2006-08-09 04:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one!, my wife set me up with 3 of her friends before we started dating, she knew how she felt but I didnt see it, finally after a night of being "friends" she drove me home because I was drinking, and kissed me, I was shocked but also blown away as I had interest in her but did not want to ruin friendship, we have been married now for over 10 years, don't hide it he probably feels the same, you say he is respectful and cares, then if he dosent feel as u do, he would probably remain your friend, Go for it, by the way everyones "good enough" dont sell yourself short, to much of that going on, keep your spirits up!!
2006-08-09 04:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by the bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never not good enough, but maybe I want him but I'm probably not his type. Sometimes we sell ourselves short. I am guilty of it but insecurity is a human flaw. We all feel it. If you really like him and have access to him, casually ask him if he would date someone like you. If he says yes then say, "Well why haven't you because I have been trying to let you know that I want us to get together sometimes."
If he says no. Ask why. Listen to him and then tell him that you would date someone like him and as a matter of fact, you'd date him.
Either way, express your interest in him overtly. Then see what he does. If he doesn't, move on. You put your bid in the game and that's all you should have to do.
2006-08-09 04:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me help you out!
This handsome respectful man is not your friend. He doesn't invite you to come hang out with his friends when he goes drinking or camping or shopping for electronics. He doesn't ask you to help him move. He is a male human and, little secret, is not capable of having a friendship with the gender he desires. Straight Men have 3 kinds of relationships with women, they are our Significant Others, Potential Sexual Partners, or female relatives that are barred from us by the stigma of incest. If you're not dating him and not related to him it means that reguardless of how politely he treats you he wouldn't refuse a romantic advance from you unless he finds something about you repulsive.
If you want to be involved romantically with him all you need to do is make a move. Spend time alone with him, take him out for drinks or a movie. Make physical contact and if he doesn't object, kiss him.
Done Deal.
2006-08-09 04:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because we dig someone, doesn't mean they are going to dig us back (or not in the same way)...it doesn't mean either person isn't "good enough" but just that one or the other party may not feel they are a good romantic match (for whatever reason(s)).
If he's interested, he'll let you know...don't spend too much time waiting around and hoping though, you may end up letting someone who's a good match for you pass you by...
2006-08-09 04:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at my girlfriend and think that all the time, but she loves me for who I am, so stop thinking about how you look and start having sex with this good looking guy.
Also, since you said the dude is very respectful of women, he is never going to make the first move is he? So its up to you sister, now march over and plant one on him... guys don't turn down action, its not in our dna..
2006-08-09 04:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Andy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the fact of if you're good enough or not, it's the fact that he just wants to be friends. It sort of feels weird when one of your friends wants to date you sometimes, or he's got his eye on someone else. Maybe in the near future, he'll grow to like you, but don't try to hard to make it that way.
2006-08-09 04:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too much of a "guy's girl", meaning that you are fun with the buddies, but your guy friends go for other girls.
Also, consider if you all went out and it didn't work out. Is it worth losing the friendship?
2006-08-09 04:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME!!! I do that ALL the time. There's this totaly awesome gorgeous guy named Aaron that ripped my heart out by saying that he saw us as "just friends"...ahh!! I wanted to scream. We got stuck in that rut and now I dont' know how to get out of it. I wish I never told him. Bleh. But anyways. I know I can't help you because I'm in the same situation, but I sypmathize...and thats something...
You are NOT alone.
2006-08-09 04:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he see's you as a friend and he wants to keep your friendship and dont want to ruin it but yeh most men do actaully say that and most the time its kind of true because men are so well known for being little freeks and doing freeky things lol so yeh there might be a side to him that you havent seen yet
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2006-08-09 04:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by lady kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋