I feel like a school girl all over again, but here I go.
Both myself the guy i've been casually seeing for a little while now are both a little passive when it comes to relationships because we've both came out of serious heartbreak, him a divorce myself a broken engagement. Him a year ago myself 8 months.
So anyways, sometimes us doing something is like pulling teeth because we don't want to risk anything.
My question is how do I tell him that I'm getting attached and would like this to become more serious without pressuring him too much, since he's not been in anything serious since his divorce.
Just like highschool - but with ex-wives.
2006-08-09 04:06:14 · 4 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain it to him just like you did here. Let him know that you realize he's afraid of being hurt and so are you, but there comes a time where you have to put it behind you and start trusting again. And you're ready to start.
Good luck to you :)
2006-08-09 04:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him his opinion on committed relationships. I know I never want to get into another long term relationship for a long time. I hated having to justify and answer to someone like I did as a teenager with my parents. It's a good feeling to only have to answer to yourself. That could be why he has not been in a serious relationship in the past. Make sure you spend some me time to yourself as well.
2006-08-09 11:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down one night after dinner or lunch and tell him how you feel. You never know he could be attached to you as well. You never know until you ask.
2006-08-09 11:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think you should! It is your choice that no one can make for you!
2006-08-09 11:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by ASHLEY♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋