I really want this guy that is kinda friends with my ex who I caught cheating on me. He comforted me one night and was such a gentlemen that I cannot forget him. My hormones are crazy for him. Last time I saw him he came to me and said "your killing me". He is killing me. He wont get involved with me because of my ex, he is freake dabout him knowing. It is driving me nuts and I really want him, what do I do?
2006-08-09 04:02:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will lose his friend if he went out with you.....try to know what do you really want..are you trying to get your ex by going out with his friend or are you really into this guy?
good luck
2006-08-09 04:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always want what you can't have because everything looks more attractive from afar. When you get up close and personal with someone is when you start to see the cracks in the facade that they put up. Sounds like this guy is a good friend to your ex. If it's meant to be then you will get together down the road. Don't press up on him though. You don't want him and your ex having something to laugh about at your expense
2006-08-09 11:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got too admire this fella's values on his friendship with your ex, He said it's killing him, maybe it is. In time you will meet someone you deserve without all the complications of hurting other people.........As for having what we can't have. You need to ask yourself just because this guy showed you some affection at a time when you were feeling down, is it him you want or is it just the thought of feeling wanted, could he offer you what your ex never? big questions, Good Luck
2006-08-09 11:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by flippling flishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really good freinds with your ex, I'd think he'd be more loyal to that relationship so I don't think you should push it or you might just get used. But if he's really interested in you, he can get over his freind. You just need to know where he really stands. Maybe a letter to that effect could get you an honest answer. It's never easy with freinds and ex's involved on the sidelines but it's possible if it's true love.
2006-08-09 11:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gregg J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem with a bloke once who felt that we had a chemistry and all that but he wouldn't talk to me he would tell everyone else that he liked me. he even asked my manager to find out what i thought of him. I thought he was the sweetest thing I had ever seen but because he would not talk to me i would not admit i liked him and eventually left so that i did not have to see him again. if you really want him go get him gal
2006-08-09 11:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you get a chance like the one,"your killing me",that's your signal to tell him and the way you sound to me is sexy enough that telling him your feelings for him will , if he feels this way too, your both hooked.sounds sexy enough for me i tell you he is a lucky guy.lots of love,no luck needed.
2006-08-09 11:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by freshstart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should go out with him and forget your ex.
2006-08-09 11:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by anA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to have my dad back. He died when I was five years old.
2006-08-09 11:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant have him...in other words itll never be good...and you cant have what you want in this situation cuz what you want is not good
2006-08-09 11:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Billy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcos ya cant have it?!
2006-08-09 11:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋