I called her yesterday and express my feelings to her. i told her that i have fallen in love with her. she laugh and said that is nice and good, and that she is happy to here that. So i later tell her that i will call her tomorrow and she said she will be expecting my call. the i thing there is that, i do not know if she is pulling my legs or serious.
Please wat can i do? I have really fallen in love with this girl.
2006-08-09 03:58:01 · 33 answers · asked by samuel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't overanalyze or go on HER feelings until she just outright disrespects you although that may never happen. Many women don't know how to act when a man is straight forward with them because they are so used to decifering GAME. BUT DON'T read INTO what she said, take her at her word and then, no one is playing games. Tell her you won't play games with her and ask her how she feels...is she into game playing. She said, she was happy to hear that. She said she will be expecting your call, so of COURSE you can call her. Just back off a little. She laughed because she wasn't expecting love! Take it easy and don't scare her away or go on your expectations. Just be honest and true to your heart when you are with her and talking to her and confidently let things progress from there. Give her time to open up to you and she will.
2006-08-09 04:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her but not so soon. Take at least a day. Dont act needy. Girls say the love all this romantic stuff but only when they re already in love. If she's a pretty girl, she's probably sick of "guys expressing their feelings" to her. She wants a different guy. Make her laugh. Act in a way that she should say: This guy makes me feel great, i want to be her gf. Its a game u have to play.
2006-08-09 04:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, call her. She might have been caught off guard and is not sure what to say and maybe that's why she's looking forward to your call. At that time she'll be ready to say what she wants to say. Don't pressure her and let her express any feelings she may have for you. And in the case the feeling is not mutual don't hang yourself over it. You gave it a try and that was the best you could do than not say anything at all. Good luck!!
2006-08-09 04:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her and see what she says then. It could simply be that she does not believe that you have truly fallen in love with her and it may take some time for her to completely understand that.
2006-08-09 04:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you told her that you LOVE her and she just LAUGHED I can tell you that a woman who is really feeling you wouldn't just laugh and say thats good alot of women would love to hear those words coming from the man in their lives so maybe she isnt into you as much as you are into her.
2006-08-09 04:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her you would call, and she didn't ask you not to...thus if you do not, you'll have broken your word and proven yourself untrustworthy.
If you say you are going to do something, either follow through or let whomever is involved know why you are not going to do that thing.
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...would you want someone to say they were going to call you, then not do it? How does that cause you to feel about that person? Hmmm?
2006-08-09 04:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should call her! You've already told her you love her, why not take the chance? If you don't, you will forever be wondering if things would have been different if you had called her.
2006-08-09 04:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she will be expecting your call then call her! It is obvious that she is interested or she would have come up with an excuse as to why you shouldn't! Good luck!
2006-08-09 04:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a ring mate, whats the worst that can happen? She says no to your advances, so? Atleast if yo u try you know for sure, and if it does fail, you havent lost anything have you?
Go for it, stop thinking about it, and let your heart lead you.
2006-08-09 04:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Andy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her so, just take your time. if you don't and my suspicion about this is what i think.. you'll chase her away.
patience is a virtue. remember it's not love it's fascination at first... unless you've known her all your life so far.
love is something that snuck up on you that you didn't notice it is just something you realize after years of being with the persons conserned.
2006-08-09 04:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋