i never find someone who really care about me. and i don't know what's wrong about me?
2006-08-09 03:54:27 · 17 answers · asked by samit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There might be nothing wrong with you.
If you are looking for Love, the best you can find is Romance. Romance always fades with time.
When you least expect it, and stop looking, Love will find you. All you need to do is to be aware of it when it happens. Stop looking for Mr Right (cause you will probably find Mr. RightNow). Stop making a list of what you want in a person or in a relationship.
What do you need to do until Love finds you? Pay attention to those people around you. How do you feel about them? How do they feel about you? Keep you thoughts and judgments under control. These tend to be pessimistic.
Talk to people that you might not usually talk to. Communication is the key to any great relationship. Be open and honest. Be yourself.
No one will need to tell you when True Love finds you. You will know.
2006-08-12 11:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 65⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking so hard for true love and it will come to you naturally. I have felt how you are feeling many times throughout my life and actually up to a little less than 3 years ago thought that I was going to have to end my days as a lonely old man. But I went on-line to chat with woman, have to admit that I felt like the biggest loser on earth having to go to this extreme, but it worked out very, very well for me. I did chat with a number of woman but there was this one lady that really got my attention and both our lives have changed. We ended up meeting at a donut shop after many e-mails were exchanged and many phone calls. We spent that whole day together and dam if she didn't dig me and I her. We started seeing each other regularly and kept in touch daily through e-mails, phone, text messages. Now here we are 2 and a 1/2 years later and we are engaged to be married next May, something neither of us had ever expected. Life is a funny thing and it will give us what we can handle when we are ready. So keep the faith and believe that there is not a thing wrong with you and that your prince will be along some day to pick you up off your feet and a new world you will view through your eyes. Best of luck in your life.
2006-08-09 11:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Love comes finding for you when you are not finding for love. Sometimes love is very difficult to find. Let things come naturally and you will be in for a surprise.
2006-08-09 10:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by yanshan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will it comes to everyone and you proberbly have but the brake up made you think otherwise and dont look for it let it come to you loves one of those things that builds up from nothing like it starts from a relationship that is not that serious then one of the parters want it to be more serious so they take to the next level but you just need to fine someone who is up to your standard first ... someone you you like .. then give it time ;)
2006-08-09 11:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by lady kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to find true love u must like a guy of course. he must like u as must as u like him so u won't have a be relationship. and don't get mad for stupid things like, if he was hugging someone
2006-08-09 11:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by LOVERGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the last time u don't try to look for love it just a feeling in ur heart when u see the perfect guy
2006-08-09 10:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello buddy i will jst say...u can go n search for true love...it will come to u by itself..dnt u thnk its always the way v look at thngs!!!so cud b thr mst b someone arnd who really cares for u ...BUT u dnt knw tht..or u still dint realise....thnk properly....
2006-08-09 10:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you you need to let love find you
2006-08-09 11:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you learn to know and love yourself,then you are mature enough to know what you are looking for.Some people never do!
2006-08-09 11:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always believe dat everyone will find their true love one day...
Jus b yrself, be patient and Im pretty sure, soon, U'll be able to find that special someone..
Good Luck!
2006-08-09 10:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by TapAnyButton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love ain't hard to find..... It's right between your legs and mine!
2006-08-09 10:58:18 · answer #11 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋