I dont "Come" during S3X, and want to Satisy him?

Question

I have 2 queries. please help
1) Can women "come" durring sex? cause i dont "come" unless my Bf fingers me at the same time...? Are we doing something wrong?
2) i really want to make my Bf to scream with pleasure ... any suggestions on what i can do to make him melt with satisfaction?

Answer 1

There are two types of female orgasms: clitoral and vaginal (g-spot) orgasms. I call them "outside" and "inside" orgasms.

You have been experiencing clitoral/outside orgasms. Some women cannot have inside orgasms easily, maybe not at all. There's nothing wrong with that! If you are coming at all, you're doing something right. So keep doing it. You can also have clitoral orgasms through oral sex. Be upfront with your "Bf" and let him know what you like.

As for the vaginal orgasm, you may find that as you grow more experienced at sex, you will start having them. Definitely try different sexual positionsn and be patient. You or your partner could also try to find your g-spot. Have him use his finger(s) and feel the inside wall of your vagina - the "front facing" wall. If he feels around, about 1/3 of the way inside, quite close to the opening, he should find a rough patch of skin. Then he can stimulate that spot with his finger. If he presses on it, you may at first feel like you want to pee. But that's a good sign, have him keep going. You will have to direct him and let him know when it feels good and when it doesn't. If he continues to stimulate it, you should have an orgasm. Maybe once you have found your g-spot and figured out what feels good, it will help you to achieve that effect during intercourse.

Lastly, if you want to make him scream with pleasure, just have sex with him. Men are easy!

Answer 2

First and foremost: 1. YES A women can not only have one orgasm but many many many in one sexual encounter. Maybe not you thats doing anything incorrectly in the first place.
It sopunds like he is not giving you enough vaginal stimulation during penetration to begin with.
When he is BFing you, as you put it, he is stimulating a bundle of nerves that are actually inside the vagial walls inner /upper side.
Is his penis small or altered in shape?
Is the position not best for penetration? You CAn acheive orgasm by your own admission so I dont think it is you hon.
Maybe he just doesnt lite your fire or is not skilled at seduction to your tastes.

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Answer 3

Neither woman nor men come during sex, it occurs at the end, that is the climax. Do you get orgasms from sexual intercourse? If you have an orgasm from sex, you might be coming and not notice it, but it is most likely to happen. If you do not have an orgasm, then that is why you don't come from sex. If you are talking about the sort of come that occurs from clitoral stimulation, then that you will notice if it happens, because it feels much like as if you pissed yourself. If it feels really good and you feel like you could climax, you are not doing anything wrong, just need to learn to relax and be patient, it will come when you are ready. I have had much trouble myself with this, so don't worry, you are not alone with this trouble. Just relax and enjoy!
I don't know about making your boyfriend "scream with pleasure", but to make your boyfriend "melt with satisfaction", I would recommend knowing how to give a really good oral sex. I am considered a master and have men wanting me again and again, just for this performance. I watched sex shows on TV and read sex articles in magazines and then practised and have made a lasting impression with my capabilities. Men generally love to have their penis sucked, so if you can master this, you have got it made. Relax, be yourself and don't be afraid to try things.

Answer 4

Don't get hung up on the climax. As I am sure some of the other women can tell you, and as you already know, most good sexual feelings come from your clit. during intercourse many women can't climax just from the intercourse because the stimulation is no close enough to the magic mark. Try sexual intercourse while on top. You can rub yourself(clit) along with the intercourse. Most guys are pretty visual, I'm betting your bf will like that and you can rub yourself to a nice climax to boot.

Answer 5

Woman orgasm comes inside and cannot be seen as ejaculation, However, if proper foreplay is done, you may find a lot of secretions coming out which aids in lubrication of the vagina. Its a myth to say that if penetration is deper, the more orgasm for the girl. The stiluli centres are on the clitoris and outer lobes of the vagina!!!
You start enjoying the coitus and naturally you will encourage your partner. Nothing special to be done!!!

Answer 6

No there is nothing wrong with you because you have to have different stimulation to ***. Everyone is different on these things. As far as making your bf scream just try different things with him and ask him what he likes and don't like. In the process you will not only find what makes him get off but may find another way to get yourself off as well. Good luck.

Answer 7

I have same problem.Here is a solution. What ever way you can get an o like on belly or like on back .lay in that position while having sex. basically play with self while he is dong it to you. You will have a big o and he can tell. Also get this book 302 advanced Techniques for driving a man wild in bed. It runs men on to turn you on ego:) good luck.

Answer 8

Dear Laura,

1) This is normal - most people don't go at the same time - that's a fiction of movies.

2) Experiment with different positions, touches, etc.

-j.

Answer 9

Okay it took me a while to figure things out in the beginning also. First that feeling you get when you do get to do you thing, well you need to find a position that gives you a similar feeling then go to town!!! I recommend riding cowgirl. don't just go up and down try back and forth. Second talk dirty a little bit to him then while in cowgirl position turn around your back towards him and try the up and down thing. your legs will get tired but I've found that it works every time!!! Good luck!!

Answer 10

You have to talk to your partner and find out what they like and tell them how you want to be touched. Since you have found out what makes you climax with a fingering I would try to similate that same angle and movement with sex. Yes, you can *** during sex and it is awesome!!! Since my man has been making me climax with his C--K I hardly ask for oral any more. Anyway the best thing is to talk and experiment .....buy that Karma Sudra book of positions.