we did everything that people in relationships did thats why i dont understand. what was the problem. he acted as if he liked me and he wanted to be with me then he turns around and says i only see us as friends. what should i think? what should i do? now he still wants to be friends with me but i dont think i can. what he said hurt me so bad and now i'm so confused. please help me. we have classes together and everything should i change them. i really love him so much but i dont know if i can deal with just being friends. tell me what you think
2006-08-09 03:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by vnetta26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he gets the benefits of a relationship with none of the work and commitment....it works for him but evidently not for you.....wake up....he's using you.
2006-08-09 03:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by tecvba 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds like you were friends before you guys started dating... right? Well if thats the case and he says that he just wants to be friends all of a sudden, maybe he just thinks that the whole time that you guys were a couple things just seemed like you were just friends and maybe he just thinks that friendship is the only thing that can come out of it. He probabley isn't doing this to hurt you, he is just doing this so you both can find a lover and a friend, not just a friend. I wouldn't let your friendship go.. cause he maybe is one of those people that knows a whole lot about you and you can probabley always turn to him for help. Things happen for a reason, there is a better guy out there, just let the line back out in the water and let the bat do the talking. Things will get better. Good Luck! and i hope this helped.
2006-08-09 03:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by meangel15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got yourself into this mess by being friends with benefits in the first place.
learn from this, and next time be in a relationship before you sleep with someone, or just don't get emotionally involved.
as far as this guy goes, just be friends and find someone new. he'll either be jealous and want you back, or you were meant to only be friends. either way at least you have a friend.
P.S. you can't make someone love you.
2006-08-09 03:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by jimvalentinojr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends. it'll be hard for a while, but it'll pay off in the end. who knows...10 years down the line you may even realize you belong together, because when maturity sets in, you understand how important friendship is in a life-long relationship.
good luck on that.
2006-08-09 03:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by naveh4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'm sorry but it kinda sounds like he is interested in someone else , if its hard for you to be friends with him, then stay away from him for awhile till your over things , its a hard pill to swallow when it comes all of a sudden like that
2006-08-09 03:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by LISA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has another lover and its over toots!
be friends or dont... doesnt matter now
2006-08-09 03:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋