please i just got laid off at work , im trying to find work , in the meantime im living at home ,my mom is realy driving me insane ,shes ben yelling at me wen i try to sleep , if i get up she fallows me screaming , usaly about delusions she has , like she found some foil from a dinner i had and she kept me up till 3AM yelling at me for smoking crack , seriously its making me sick and loose my sleep and my mind , isnt there anything i can do , Note taht ive got lots tones of expensive electronics in my room , and pets so a group home or shelter isnt an option , councilers have talked to her over the years and it hasnt changed it is also Very difficult to find work wen my only sleep i get in is cat naps wens shes at work , altho they are interupted constantly by check up calls and visits , i am not a problem child , and no matter what no1 should keep som1 from sleeping , she sezz my room and evywhere in the house is hers so she can do it , please what can i do ?
2006-08-09 03:26:57 · 19 answers · asked by azizzexmadmathwizz 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
LIKE I HAVE BEEN ANSWERING THIS SAME QUESTION, IF YOU WANT TO CALL IT THAT, 3X NOW. GET OFF CRACK, GO BACK TO SCHOOL, GET A JOB, LEAVE YOUR MOTHER ALONE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 04:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the only thing you can do is get a job and move out
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You will have to make a list of the pros and cons of staying where you are and keeping your things and pets or moving out, getting rid of some things and finding a new home for your pets and keeping your sanity.
This decision you have to make isn't going to be an easy one.
Also, if you are really smoking crack and your mother isnt just being delusional, you might want to consider getting some help. It isn't a habit the will help you find a new job or save any money. It wont help your health either.
I also wonder how hard you are actually trying to find a job. Finding a job in itself is full time. You have to go out everyday and apply for jobs, get your resume to people you know who might pass it along to someone they know who might be hiring in your field.
I would also like to suggest, if you are serious about finding a job, you may want to work on your spelling. You have a lot of errors in your paragraph. If you are spelling like this on job applications, I wouldnt be surprised if you are being over looked for a job because of your spelling.
2006-08-09 13:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do seem to be in a bad situation. Sadly, for you, your mother is right. It is her home and she can nag the heck out of you and deprive you of sleep anytime she wishes. Sleep deprivation is a very bad thing. You mentioned crack? Do you smoke crack or does she just think you do? In any case, my advice to you; is "find any type of work for now and find an affordable place to live." Maybe stay with a friend for a short time one that can tolerate pets and allows you to save some money. In the meantime, look for the type of work you are experienced in. The main thing is to save your sanity and move out of mom's house and leave your mom to deal with her own demons..
2006-08-09 10:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with a friend or relative if you can until you get enough money to move out. If you can't do that maybe you could just go to a friend or relatives place to get away from your mom for a couple of hours or go there to take a nap so she can't bother you. I am sorry you have to go through that. It sounds rough.
2006-08-09 18:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by 30somethin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I would never suggest you to move out as suggested by others. I would advise her that you speak to you mom and let her know that you are trying your best to get a job. Because if you move out and are unable to find a job, you will be in the worst scenario
Regards
Nitin
2006-08-09 12:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a relative and ask to stay with them so you can find a decent job and get a place of your own.
If your relatives know her, they'll probably help. Or maybe some friends? Ask everyone.
I know what you're going through. Good luck.
2006-08-09 10:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job at MacDonalds as a temporary alternative while you continue to search for another job
2006-08-09 10:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by fan_fic85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with a friend and don't look back. Just get a job so you can pay your half of everything.
2006-08-09 10:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kris B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take any job you can get..even McDonalds..get yourself a room or efficiency someplace..then you can spend the time to get the job you want..just get out of there..
2006-08-09 10:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Learn to spell and 2. Grow up, it's her house.
2006-08-09 11:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by imthebestandyornot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be nice to her and try harder 2 find a job and lock off the door when u wanna sleep i hope she will not break it.....if it get worst move out
GOOD LUCK !!
2006-08-09 10:42:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋