I am best friends with a girl I have known for 2 years. I really like her more than friends and I think she does too, but i'm not sure and hopefully you can help me out. These are some examples: We are both very smart so she will always try to get the upper hand with me and correct any of my little mistakes. She gets really close to me (bodys almost touching) when she is pretending to be angry with me. If i say something rude she'll punch me on the shoulder. Once she even grabbed my arm and squeezed with her nails lol. Other things are that, when she wanted to sit on the stool I was sitting on she started bumping her butt against me. So: are all these things the playfull signs of a really good friend who is comfortable around me? Or does she see me as more than a friend?
2006-08-09 03:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be, depends on the person. Some call it flirting, some call it just playing.
2006-08-09 03:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ak2ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her how you feel. If she is only a good friend in her mind it may turn her off and you will see less of her.
Instead ask her how she feels about you. Only keep it playful and funny. Next time she bumps your body just say "Hey I know you can't do with out me but please......." Or the next time she Tris to correct your little mistakes say "Hey...Listen we are not married so you don't need to keep trying to straighten me out"
Anyway you get the idea. Play with her but move it toward finding out who she really feels. Put it on her. You may be surprised what you find out.
2006-08-09 03:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first meet a guy I'm reserved, but if I know him, or am comfy around him, yes , I get playful, and find random reasons to touch him, but some guys take a girls niceness for something else, so dont assume, do u feel something when u guys make eye contact?
2006-08-09 03:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all of the things I do with all of my close friends...you might want to ask her to be certain though...
2006-08-09 03:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can be doing these things because she feels very comfortable with you. But what would you loose if you just tell her how you feel?
2006-08-09 03:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the girl. She may shy away from you because she doesn't want you to know.
2006-08-09 03:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by jlpitt98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you a lot. The only way to know if it is more than a friend is to ask her...
2006-08-09 03:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means she like you,it's how us girls show that we like you
2006-08-09 03:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋