I'm an african american female living in Baltimore city. I've dated black men all my life (and 1 asian). I'm kinda curious about dating a white male, but not really certain where to meet one who some flavor. Am I wrong for wanting to experience something tottaly new before I settle down?
2006-08-09 03:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by quiana18_98_98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You don't have to be curious. It's not wrong to experience what it's like to date a white guy (or any other race). But, it doesn't really make a difference dating a white guy. What make a big difference is the personality of the person.
Another thing (I don't think there is anything wrong with it) that my friend metioned when I asker her (she's white) and wanted to date an african american, she said "No, I don't want a "mixed" child."
That anotther thing to keep in mind if you want a "mixed" child or not, but whatever.
I'll love my child no matter what he or she looks like or whatever.
2006-08-09 03:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Imaginer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its ok. But you should look within yourself to see why its important for you to do. If your thinking that you'll hook up with some white guy that will be different than the black guys, just because he is white, I think you'll be disappointed. People tend to select mates that are similar - all though the similarites aren't always obvious or apparent. In other words, you might pick a white guy, but he will be just the white version of the black guys you been going out with. It probably won't be that different.
2006-08-09 03:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you just wanna try something new, experience everything before you settle down. As far a white males go... I'd try for one mid 20s age-wise though...
2006-08-09 03:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be curious, just make sure that if you start dating a white man, date him for who he is, not just for the color of his skin. Good luck!
2006-08-09 03:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A man is a man after all, the only things that might make one different is his upbringing, where he was raised, and what his moral character is like..... Have fun, life is too short to worry about that!!! :)
2006-08-09 03:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by emeraldliliy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. You should experience as much as possible prior to settling down.
2006-08-09 03:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just a normal young lady trying to be curious all the time.
2006-08-09 03:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good thing to expand ur horizon
what do u want in white men???
2006-08-09 03:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obivious becoz everyone like to try something new
2006-08-09 03:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse not!! Love has no limits!!
2006-08-09 03:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋