he's the most loving guy ive been with but we are not close, i feel single even when im with him, we dont share the same pleasures in life and i have to convince him to do anything, even to watch a sunset together. if it were up to him he's watch movies with me and thats it. ive had 3 years of this.
i feel like i have a child, not a partner.
when i want to break up i feel sad to let him go and he begs me to stay. i get confused and dont know what to do. im so down.
2006-08-09 03:03:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive told him all this. he promises it will get better, but theyre all empty promises. its always "in the future". im fed up of wating for a future boyfriend. any excuse is good enough for him to excuse his behavior, from hayfever to his mother needing to know where he's at. he's 25.
2006-08-09 03:10:14 · update #1
I think break up is the only solution...
u must tell him that both of u r not fit for each other yet he is a lovely person.....
Don't drag this relation otherwise both of u will suffering a lot.......
If u try to adjust with him then this is not love,it will be a compromise
2006-08-09 03:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the same place as me right now. My boyfriend is the funniest, most caring and loving man I have ever met, but something is missing. We have been together for 2 years and every day seems like a struggle. We like different things and have different ideas on how a relationship should be.
More than anything, I think you are afraid that you will never meet anyone that will compare to your boyfriend. If you feel like the mother figure in the relationship, it is not healthy. You will end up resenting him for this.
If you are not happy, you are playing with his emotions. He needs to know that you can no longer give 100%, you still care for him but it is time to move on.
2006-08-09 03:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Eileen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be honest with both him and yourself! I've been in the same boat some years ago and i knew deep down i had to do it. Its not fair on either of you to keep putting it off. Sit down and have a good talk together. At the end of the day if its not working, its not working, better for you to both be happy. For all you know he could be thinking the same?!
Life is for living, make the most of it and live it to the full, don't waste it being unhappy x
2006-08-09 03:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by yo_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience it would be a good idea to tell him that you're going away for 2 weeks and the reason is - you can say that you need some time off and you won't be reachable for that period), so you would have some time to sort out your feelings, as you suppose to love - not feel sorry for him.
It will make it or break it, you'll see.
2006-08-09 03:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we werent exactly the same way as u 2. But i had dated this girl for 4 years and she didnt have the heart to tell me to take a hike--so she conveniently let me walk in while she was havin sex with another guy. she knew i wood never forgive her or even be able to talk to her again. She coodhave just told me but.. i guess she just coodnt do it so this was her solution--it worked!
2006-08-09 03:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is sincere towards you ,he has not taken any advantage out of you,he is waiting for your concurrence then and only then he will enjoy life with you,therefore you should not leave him as he will take care of all your wishes,i think you will be happy with him.Because a person who is sincere and loves you will definitely keep you happy.
2006-08-09 03:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this position not long ago and I waited nearly a year to do it! Dont make this mistake it will hurt him and you more if you wait!
Just tell him, I did it by phone thats bad but if I didn't do it then I never would have
2006-08-12 08:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u need to break up with him just he needs to do a rapid change.the most loving guy would be romatic and watching sunset is that.so not to sure on loving guy but if he cant change then he needs to go.so just tell him u like him and want to be with him but u need more.thats not good that u dont have same intrest.so yeah i feel u like him but u want more and if he cant do more u need to go.tell him that and if he wont do it then time to go.ok good luck
2006-08-09 03:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
identity say your device crashed because you probably did not turn off your device. it likely over heated. if it did your memory card could also be fried. i could say your going to ought to purchase each thing new back. which completely sucks. my advice is attempt to get it fixed like deliver it to NINTENDO and in the adventure that they could't fix it you should purchase a clean one except you've assure. and then once you get a clean one in straightforward words play it like for 3 hours tops at a time. then watch for like 2 hours in the previous playing back.
2016-11-23 17:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to be strong and believe that you are making the right decision for the right reasons. If you really want to end things with him you need to put your foot down. I take it you've talked to him about the way you feel and he hasn't changed?
If being strong doesn't work and you bottle it, do things to him that'll make him end it with you!!!!
2006-08-09 03:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by steve-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋