i fell for a close friend of mine and she doesn't want me to court her because she says our friendship might be wasted. I really like her and and have feelings for her though. She rejects me like hell but im still here loving her silently. She calls it stupid love. What would i do to her to fall for me? We are just friends as she always say..How wud someone court her if there not friends? Please help me. you can email me silentriver29@yahoo.com.ph .
2006-08-09 02:49:00 · 8 answers · asked by silentriver29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should respect what she says. Probably she does not feel the same way. She does care for you and would not want to hurt you so why hurt yourself? Go out and meet new girls.
2006-08-09 02:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant give up i know that. u need to make her see that ur the one and u wont hurt her and there would be no reason a friendship be wasted cuz it wont.u will be true to her and respect and protect her so yeah.it not kool being shut down cuz ur good friends.u need to take chances and u love the girl so dont give up.all u can do is hope that she will forget that friend friend bull and give u a chance.if u love her dont give up.im sure she likes u to but dont want to lose ur friendship and she wont just make it stronger.so jsut take her out and treat her good and hopefully she wil c and let u in her heart.so good luck
2006-08-09 02:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can promise her that you'll treat her with respect then I don't see the problem. I don't think she feels the same way about you and is using the friendship as an excuse. If I had a best friend that I was remotely attracted to and he came to me and said he wanted me too, I'd jump on it, Friends make the best lovers
2006-08-09 02:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugaj150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really love her as much as u say u do, you would respect her feelings and stop trying to "court" her. she obviously cares for you or she would not want to keep being ur friend. not many girls still want to keep friendships with guys who they know are madly in love with them. appreciate that and move on. there are sooooo many other fish in the sea.
2006-08-09 02:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and kiss her. Let her know your serious. See what happens. If it doesn't go well, you are wasting your time. She's just not that in to you. Let her just be a friend and spend your time chasing a woman that you actually have a chance with.
2006-08-09 02:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by heckart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry man but your screwed, this has happened to me my whole frikin life. theres no way she will ever like you, even if she did she would never admit it. its going to be hard getting over her but u can do it. try hitting up her hot friends
2006-08-09 02:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by bilbodawg2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango and she's not interested in dancing. Move on!!!
2006-08-09 02:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋