After like breaking up with my ex, I see man as someone to satisfy me in bed alone. Not my usual self. Is this just a stage of deppression or somethin else. And I've been getting offers and thinking of getting whatever I want. Am I being mean
2006-08-09 02:45:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not. You are young and attractive, plus sex is merely a physical act between two people. There is nothing wrong with casual sex w/ no strings attached. In fact, it is the best kind because you can let loose of all of your inhibitions and allow yourself to achieve maximum pleasure.
2006-08-09 02:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean; I was in a similar place after a painful breakup and I stayed in this anger-fed sex-only box for about three years....it ran it's course, and the encounters began to strike me as empty endeavors. I don't consider that being mean, per se, but doing what is required for you at this stage in your development to properly heal. Just be careful as you travel this road.( Your heart isn't the only thing that can be hurt).
Ironically, I never regretted any of this until I met someone who broke through all of the BS and I had to explain to her how I came to be at this place in time...( actually, I didn't HAVE to explain, I wanted to); that's when I wished I had come to her with a lot less of a "past". So, that's somethng to think about, too. There is life on the other side of this fog, but I imagine you do have to go through this to come out the other side. Good luck to you. I wish you well.
2006-08-09 02:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wierd at all, but likely a phase. I know that typically after I get out of a committed relationship I feel the same way (where I'll see a woman as someone to satisfy me in bed). But that's because we've been hurt. It's easier after coming out of a hurtful relationship to separate the feelings of love from the love of sex, and enjoy each of them independently, until we find another individual who really can give us both - and sometimes we find them when we least expect it. (no link to 360?) Still curious as to what island you're on!
2006-08-09 02:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to think that way, still do most of the time. no it isn't weird, i think that it may be a stage. don't know how long it will last or if it will come back it it ever leaves. so no your not being mean. just be careful what you do. don't do anything you think you might regret in the future because you probably will.
2006-08-09 03:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 02:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont want to hurt again, thats why u avoid emotional attachment. U are not just a piece of a#!, just date around, let men take u out, u dont have to have sex with each guy. Hang in there
2006-08-09 02:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this is just a stage. After a break-up, ppl do weird things. Just be safe I guess.
2006-08-09 02:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not but just be up front about it. If sex is all you want from these guys let them know from the start so nobody gets hurt.
2006-08-09 02:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body goes thre that stage...i went threw it and i am still goinging threw it..i think some men are only good for sex and i know others that are good as friends. as for now just be safe and take your time to get over it....it's natural
2006-08-09 02:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only the world was populated with women who thought that way.
2006-08-09 02:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋