2006-08-09 02:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course, but it takes time to get over a divorce, and alot of people are afraid to jump back into the real world.
It's hard to start over on your own, you feel alone and you feel like noone understands what you are going through, other than having a good listener, no matter what anyone says can take away the hurt and the pain, except for your heart, when it is ready to erase and reboot!
You'll get over it, it takes time as the weight is slowly lifted. It gets better, and it gets easier...
2006-08-09 02:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has those fears, and many people stay in relationships they shouldn't because of those fears. With the number of single people out there though, I think it is unreasonable to think you will be alone for the rest of your life..
I would caution you about just the opposite. Prior to my divorce I felt the same may, but quickly got into a serious relationship just after. The problem was I settled for an unhealthy relationship because of the fear of being alone. Take your time and let yourself heal before jumping into something.
2006-08-09 02:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by noise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't really plan not to get married again, but I don't think now after 15 years I am capable of sharing my life again! I have many friends that I “date”, more like see. Thinking about giving up the freedom I have, compromising on things, and putting up with conflict just doesn't seem like a better life!
It took a few years, but I realized, I am pretty darn happy being single!
2006-08-09 02:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I was not married but I was with someone for quite a while. He cheated on me when I was pregnant with his son. We broke up and I moved away when my son was 9 months old. I have not been with anyone since and my son is going to be 13 in a few days. I realized not too long ago that pain and fear have kept me from even looking for someone. I've been literally waiting for Mr. Perfect to knock on my front door and that just doesn't happen. You need to stay alone for awhile and heal. Then don't sit around and mope for years like I did. Start praying for that special someone that God has in mind for you!! He always picks them better than we do!!
2006-08-09 02:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by sparki0817 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling that way right now and we are only separated. It's not that I couldn't find someone else, it's that I don't want anyone else. Your feeling seems to be a natural feeling. I'm betting we will both get over it. Good Luck
2006-08-09 02:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everone has felt that but most of the time people do get together with someone else and enjoy life.
2006-08-09 02:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep I get laid but there is no love there and that is the best feeling love from another still think about her all the time can not get it up sometimes cause I am thinking of her
2006-08-09 02:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I don't think I would have the time to find someone else. My kids are my main focus right now, not me.
2006-08-09 02:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by daweeney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
I WASN'T
2006-08-09 02:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋