does God forgive premarital sex?

Question

will you go to hell for having sex with someone you love deeply but you just can't get married until later?

Answer 1

The Bible says that fornication(sex ouside of marriage) is a sin. It also states to keep your marriage bed pure. And lets not forget that God also forgives. We all mess up, there is no one perfect. Look at the people Jesus hung out with - no one of them had it together. But Jesus still loved them and cared for them. He also forgave them for everything they did. The question isn't if you deeply are in love with this individual - the question is how does God view premarital sex. (I believe that is why you have asked?) God says it is wrong. But if you can't married now, than don't be having sex. Sex is for marriage and not outside of it. Secondly, God will forgive you for this because he loves you and he is a God of mercy and grace. Will you go to hell? As a Christian, we are covered by salvation and we should be repentive towards the wrongs we have done. True Christian would learn from their wrong ways and not do them again. A Christian who is covered by Jesus will not go to hell. But I guarantee there will be consquences to pay for this sin - we reap what we sow, you will be forgiven but there will be repercussions .

Answer 2

God, I can't believe the responces.

There are 489 citations against fornication in the Bible.

Christians speak of "family values."

What kind of hyppocrites are here!

God and Jesus is a get out of jail free card.

I think I'll go out and get a couple of girls and have an orgy, because I was baptised and went to Luthern school and so I am saved because I believe in God and Jesus.

Let's all go have fun.

Let's rape, pillage for WE ARE SAVED

Let's steal while we're at it. LEt's lie. Let's start coveting. Your neighbor has a nice lawn mower, take and use it, don't ask first. Just take it! God forgives you!

LEt's murder.

Hey, what about the queer boys and girls the "abonimations!"

I guess EVERYONE FINALLY AGREES they are SAVED TO.

Well it's about time the Christians finally came out and said there is NO MORE SIN IN THE WORLD HAVE FUN JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOU GO TO HEAVEN don't matter what you do!

Now, no one will have problems with Christians anymore!

They sound like PAgans now!

Real fun people.

Go do drugs, have sex, shop lift what you want, lie to the girl to get her into bed. ALL IS FORGIVEN!

You got a GET OUT GET OUT OF JAIL FREE CARD from Jesus!

I'm getting closer to becoming an atheist. I'm starting to think their right and that religious people have NO MORAL fibres at all.

Now I understand why in a world in which 80% are Religious and all those religions OPPOSE PRE-MARITAL SEX the average man has 12 women sexually and the average woman has 10.

Well, this girl is going to have her first. I guess by the age of 40 she'll have at least a few more, especially IF THE GUY SHE DOES IT WITH DECIDES NOT TO MARRY HER AFTERALL.

So, this is RELIGION. THIS IS CHRISTIANITY!

Why don't we just junk the Bible, it seems to be filled with a lot of obsolete, wrong, misleading things that keep people from having fun and living their lives to the fullest.

Let's start by purging all those 489 FORNICATION citiations and lets also get the man with man stuff out of there too.

Let EVEYRONE have fun!

Sex is not about making babies, being fruitful. SEX IS A BEDROOM SPORT a form of entertainment and girls are just two breasts and an opening designed for man's gratification.

My vote is: God won't forgive you for WILLFUL INTENTION gratification and you will have the mark of the beast and any man who pressures you for sex is a false prophet and is leading you down the road to Satan!

In fact, I'd put off marrying this guy for another 5 years. No more hugs and kisses either!

Lets see what THE BOTH OF YOU ARE MADE OUT OF.

Let's see if you KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT.

I'll give you a hint, it's not about sex and in 10 years you won't be spreading your legs on a nightly basis anymore, most women don't after 10 years of marriage a few babies and no rest for the weary.

Then WILL HE STAY or will he wander!

Answer 3

If you ask for forgiveness then He will forgive you. You should refrain from having any more premarital sex after that, but of course I can't stop you. The whole point of forgiveness is that we musk work to not do those things again.

Answer 4

no, you won't go to Hell. But if God advises us not to have sex before marriage it's not to bother us. He, who is our perfect hevenly father, knows what is good for us. you may regret having done this later. What if you break up with your boyfriend before getting married?Or what if you realise he's not the perfect match, but you've done "it" and you think you cannot break up because of this?besides, having sex before marriage is like unwrapping a present long before it's due to be opened. Would you like to have all your presents unwrapped before Christmas?If you do love each other very much, you'll be both strong enough to wait for the "right" day.But you both need to agree on this point. Now that I told you this do whatever you want....

Answer 5

God will forgive any sin IF you repent (turn away from doing it again) Forgiveness is not a quick shower it is a result of a confession backed by action.

Answer 6

This was an e-mail that was sent to me. God will for give you and grant you atonement for your sins if you ask for it, but you must walk the life that he wants you to walk and not return or continue the lifestyle that you have just asked forgiveness for. I hope this will guide you to the answers you seek.


The EX Daily Word for August 1, 2006 - Single's Week Revisited: Are You Available?

Heb. 12:1 "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily hinders our progress. And let us run with endurance the race that God has set before us." NLT

This word is for the singles that desire to eventually marry. Many of you choose to be single and don't even know it. There is a problem with many Christian singles that stops them from receiving the gift of a spouse. I'm talking about the single person
that is fulfilling the desires of the flesh. The singles that feel like God understands their sexual desires and urges and they indulge in relationships with the opposite sex. Don't you know that when you are in a sexual relationship, you are becoming one with the person you are involved with? Then, how do you ever expect to marry or even pray for marriage, when in the spirit realm you are already taken? It trips me out how some single folks tell me that they are praying for God to bless them with a spouse and they are living with their partner, or sexually active? Come on folks! If you are sexually active outside of marriage, you are practicing "oneness"! If you are practicing oneness then you cannot be one with anyone else. Therefore, you are taken and will not receive a spouse from God.

I'm not talking about mistakes or slip-ups, but I'm talking about living a sinful lifestyle, (living together, homosexual, lesbian, etc.)! Let me tell you, if you are in a sexual relationship as a single, then prepare to stay single! God ain't blessing you with someone in that illicit relationship. And as far as God is concerned, you are already illegally joined to a person, so there is no need to seek him for a spouse. The bible says to FLEE fornication. That means get away from that person you are messing with. I've had many Christian women and men tell me that the unsaved man they are sleeping with is going to marry them so they might as well indulge! What? Come on people. Don't make it that easy for the devil to knock you off course. The reason you are even having sexual urges and desires is because your sexuality is awakened and disturbed by your lifestyle. If you would submit to God and resist the devil, the bible says he (his desires) will flee. Get it together single Christian. Don't believe the hype. If you practice sin, the bible says that you belong to Satan. If you practice righteousness, you belong to God.

Suggested Reading: I John 3:4-10, James 1:13-25, 1Cor. 6:13-20

Answer 7

I am not a "religious" person but I do believe in God. I am not going by any church teachings but the personal beliefs I have from my own understanding. If you truly want forgiveness and not just trying to look good in his eyes, if you ask with your heart and not with a guilty concious, If believe in him and put your trust in him than it will be forgiven. If you ask for forgivness without the intention of going out and doing it again than it will be so. God doe slove us and he wants to be with us. It is in our hands to be forgiven he is just the approver.

Answer 8

im not going to tell you what i think is right or wrong or even what God thinks is right or wrong, but I will tell you what most christians and possibly Jesus himself thinks is wrong

premarital sex is wrong, now you could be forgiven if you repented of this sin and stopped having premarital sex and then waited, but continually having this type of sex is repeated sin

what you are doing is.....well you are planning on sinning for a while and hoping that you make it to some later date where you can then repent and be forgiven, this hardly ever works

Answer 9

You can be forgiven for any sin if you will repent of it. However, any sin you continue in - whether it be premarital sex, homosexuality, or shoplifting - you will not be forgiven of.

Visit the link below - forgiveness requires more than just asking for it or 'praying a little prayer, asking Jesus into your heart to be your personal Lord and Savior."

Answer 10

If you ask for forgiveness, you will be forgiven.

Although, you know, Adam and Eve didn't get married, they were mated by God. Like the animals. Cain and his sister weren't married either. He was just expected to take her as his wife . Same thing for Seth and his sister.