Family member cheating on other family member what to do when one of the other family members know?
2006-08-09 02:19:37 · 21 answers · asked by ur_worst_nightmare 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The devil is always messing around. Pray. Get a few "solid" chrisians to pray for you. And i mean "solid" christians not the "half baked" ones.
2006-08-09 02:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow with so much information it's hard to know where to start. It would seem there are at least two family members that know about this cheating. Is the family member doing the cheating married or is it on a boyfriend.
What makes you think you should do anything just because you know that someone else knows of this? And what would you do? If you want to protect the cheating person, why? Are you the one doing the cheating?
Remember this, at the point a person decides to cheat, consciously, or unconsciously they are saying they don't care if someone finds out, it is well worth it. And they give up their right to be protected.
2006-08-09 09:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you absolutely know for sure this is happening...
This is part of your family?? How can you not stay out of something like that??
Your close to these people or not?? That might dictate your response as well, but assuming they are close to you...
Confront them directly!! Tell them that either they have to spill the beans or you'll be the one to create an entire website about it!!
I would personally never tolerate that **** from any of my friends or family. If things are THAT bad between people that they have to think about cheating, they should break it off and save others all the extra heartache.
2006-08-09 09:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much worse than being stuck in the middle with information.
Unfortunately, with the horrible diseases that are going around these days, I don't know that it's safe to keep such a secret. The cheater is putting their partner at risk. While it would be nice to spare the partner's feelings, I just don't think it's the wise thing to do.
If you are absolutely 100% sure that this person is cheating, you really need to tell the partner because they need to go to a doctor and get checked out.
2006-08-09 09:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. It sucks knowing something you don't really want to know but do. I have a friend who cheated on her husband and I know the guy on whom she cheated with. The guy knows that I know but my friend doesn't know that I know what I know on what we all 3 know. I believe she is currently being unfaithful with the same guy. I also know that my cousins husband is or was cheating because that same friend witness the infidelity. I know all this but no one knows that I know. And the same two persons who told me this have no idea that I know their secrets as well. Life is a mess. Seriously.
I have only told my best friend-my cousin. I trust her and I know it won't come out of her_unless she is drunk. Then she will confess to everything! I think you should tell someone you know. Don't expect to act out on anything. Just observe and keep quiet. It is painful to know. Don't get involved. Let things be. Everything in life must come to an end at some point.
2006-08-09 09:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by misuran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the attitude of the one being cheated on, my sisters boyfriend has cheated on her 5 or more times with different ladies, I knew about one of them and she knew about the others, but I knew more detailed info from people who were good friends with the other girl. I never told my sister because she had already been cheated on before and didn't do anything about it, if it would have made a difference for her to leave him then I definately would have told her especially since I hate the SOB.
2006-08-09 09:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by DINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's really bothering you, you should confront the cheater and try to get some sense in their head. That's the best approach, considering that you don't know if the cheater has confronted your fam member and come clean. I suggest you nip it in the bud, without putting your foot in your mouth. Cheating is sensitive, but should never be overlooked.
2006-08-09 09:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is hurting you or someone you love then you will have to get involved,otherwise I would stay out of it and it will all come out in the wash,be careful how you approche the situation or it might all fall back into your lap,if this is hurting someone you love then I would definetly have a talk with that person about it,be sure your facts are true and proven before you do though
2006-08-09 09:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them. Talk to them about it. It's better telling a person that their spouse is cheating than waiting and find out from someone else.
2006-08-09 09:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you want done in case you were the one being cheated on. Would you want someone to tell you especially if they were as closely related as you?
2006-08-09 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋