Why is it that a guy can't be committed to one girl. He would say, "okay I'll stop calling and texting these other women". But then a couple weeks past and he's right back to it. What is the point in wanting a commited relationship when you are not ready to leave your past alone. Ladies, how do you love someone who you know is unfaithful even if it is only emotionaly and not physical, at least I hope it's not physical.
2006-08-09 02:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lil Debbie 22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My boyfriend sounds like your boyfriend. He not only would call them but go see them as well and then lie to me about it. He thought the grass was greener on the other side. We were living together as well. As far as that one comment on here to put out or get out, that was not the case with me. I did every thing under the sun for that man, I put out anytime he wanted it and gave it my all. But it never seemed to be good enough for him. So I moved out and let him go. Now he knows what he had with me, but it is too late. He was even jealous of his own dad!! I am going on with my life now even though he does still call me and talks to me.
I my self would like to know why people think they have to cheat on their mates, when they have it so good at home with someone that really and truly cares about them. WHAT THE HECK GIVES HERE!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 03:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like the way you mentioned. It is similar to labelling all women as havin outrageously bratty or bitchy behaviour...
I guess ure refering to this one guy...mm someone seems to b really attracted, well I guess that talking with him, and saying that if he loves u he would not think about other women, and that u feel hurt as a girlfriend.
Many ppl become girlfriends and boyfriends fer fun.. at first passion and other feelings exist, but as many ppl say after being toghether their "love" fades.
I guess real love never ever fades and Real love differs from other feelings percieved as love. my take on it is If u love someone as a person, above urself and have no selfish feelings towards that person...its Real love.
2006-08-09 03:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You whine about how bad it is that he won't be committed but, at the end of the day, you're still with him. You have no one to blame but yourself for staying with someone you say is unfaithful.
2006-08-09 02:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi u. It' not so that all men are like that it definately is because of 1's own nature. We should give time for any relationship and then advance than to be sad in the end.
2006-08-09 02:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by praddumna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most guys not ready to make a commitment only for one girl. they keep searching eventhough they've found someone they like until they're ready to make one.
2006-08-09 02:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by cardigans_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would certainly not luv an unfaithful guy.better dump him.remember,he's not the only guy.there are others who are much better.take a break and decide it urself.gud luck.
2006-08-09 02:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by cool gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only physical and with a few others it sounds like get out now
2006-08-09 02:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just move on . just because one guy is not completely commited or faithful , dont mean they all are . there are plenty of guys out there who will be
never settle for less
2006-08-09 02:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by mick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his "TEXT FRIENDS". Find another guy, one that will treat you like a lady and be loyal to you.
2006-08-09 02:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should show him that you mean it by doing something like...refusing to kiss him everytime you find out he is doing that.
Try punishing him for it to make him want to stop.
don't just give in.
2006-08-09 02:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by LuLuByrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋