2006-08-09 02:04:48 · 20 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not...you should not even be close to panic. Believe me and I'm talking with a voice of experience. Stay the way you are until you meet that special person. You might not meet her until you're 30. It will be the woman you decide you want to marry. You'll have something that you saved just for her - you won't have given it away to someone because somebody else made fun out of you or someone pressured you or you were worried about what someone was going to think about you. Good luck - it's not an easy road, lots of peer pressure and stuff but the final prize will be SO worth it. God Bless!
2006-08-09 02:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by sparki0817 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no when i was 13 or 14 i thought the same thing cuz every one i knew wasnt a virgin so i thought the same thing then the next year i lost mine and i wish that i hadnt because i was with this guy 3 mths befor i ever had sex with him it still turned out that he wanted a peice and a quiky it was never about me and it hurts cuz then he goes and tell every one that he got a peice of *** from u and if u dont stay with them and give them more of what the want then theyll go and tell ppl that u easy or ur a hoe or that ull **** any one. then the next thing u know u have a rep at school that ur a hoe. i know once this guy wantted me to give him head well i told him no well to get me back he went around school and told them that i did give him head and that i would give it to anyone or some crap. so no u should wait it will make a difference i promise!!!!!!! I WISH I WOULD HAVE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 09:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by slick_chik316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not panic and you should not be alarmed what so ever. To have sex one must be physically and emotionally ready and sure of the feelings that one has for the other person. Sex is not correct or good without love, I can swear on that. So don't give into to peer pressure or what friends may say to you, your fine. Now when your 25 and still haven't found that special someone to finally give yourself to then I would start worrying but now your still fine, Sex is not one of those things to rush...
2006-08-09 09:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Do you have any idea how cool that is? And I mean cool. Just because a guy has had sex, doesn't make him better. Sometimes, it makes him a slut that pressures girls. Wait for someone special. I am not a conservative person, if that's what you're worried about .I am not even Christian, so don't panic. IT is coming from a teenage girl.
2006-08-09 09:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Blue_sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - continue to be true to yourself and eventually when the right time and right person coincide you'll be ready. Sex is so over rated - I wish that kids would sit down and have a conversation about sex before actually engaging in it. Like you should have to spend at least 1/2 an hour in negotiations before getting that personal w/ another person.
2006-08-09 09:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no being 17 and still a virgin is great wait to give it up to someone special and that you care about and that cares about you and that you love and that loves you back its better to wait when you find the right one it will be much better and more special so don't think anything of it and wait to have sex don't panic because your 17 and a virgin its good that you are it means you waiting for the right one and when girls find that out they will like you better because you are and because you've never done anything like that that means that you wont pressure her into it because your still a virgin and that's so great because girls hate to be pressured into having sex
2006-08-09 09:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to Richard G who must be a virgin also.
Don't rush into sex. No reason for it, there is plenty of time. I know people who started early, some started late, some would have been better off had they not started at all.
2006-08-09 09:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just attended my 25th high school reunion.
Interestingly, the guys that had clearly been sexually active
during their mid teens had been divorced at least a couple
of times. One had brought his 20 year old girlfriend who was
working for him. Pretty pathetic.
At 17, you were still be younger than the national average for
losing your virginity.
It is far more satisfying to have a complete relationship with
someone than to simply "polish your knob" - and you'll feel
better about yourself when your knob is polished.
As it were.
2006-08-09 09:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 and i'm still vir. In Vietnam it's illegal to have sex when you're under 18.
2006-08-09 09:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by sunson06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No take your time the right time will come
2006-08-09 09:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋