We've been staying together for more than a year and a half..we had a stupid argument one week ago.but i immediately asked her sorry! and the day after left her a message with a nicklet asking her to forgive my bahaviour..She did not answer saying anything since then.. after 4 days of leaving her alone in peace.. i called her and she did not answer at all!?Just somedays before she said she loved me.. and now she is behaving this way... I don't know what to do.. any help !?
2006-08-09 01:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by Nine05 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sorry for english..Btw.. she is the kind of person who needs always time to relax after evey argument.. but this time its just longer than ever.. usually she would not answer for a day or two ..
Note:i never even thought of tircking her.. !
2006-08-09 02:42:39 · update #1
i would stop calling her and wait and see what happens. and if she calls you don't answer let her know how it feels.
i have a friend that does this and it seems to work
2006-08-09 02:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like everyone has great opinions and Ideas and I would really have a hard time on who gave the best answer, but almost all of these answers come together for you to answer some questions for yourself and you will come to the ultimate answer. What did you do (this time) to put her in this mode of non-communication. Is she trying to give you a hint? Is there someone else in her life that might be there for her? How many "arguments" do you think it would take to want to just end the B.S. and go on your seperate way? Evidently, you will need to do more than just call her. If you truly love this woman and want to be with her, then go to her. If she will forgive you, then locate your own faults and be willing to admit them and work on these to better the relationship. Love is a two way street, and when things are said, and I don't know how many times I have said this, but words are like fists, once unleashed, there is no taking it back and they do leave scars and bruises. Mental abuse is just as bad, and maybe worse, than physical abuse. Maybe she is just tired of the drama. I hope that if you two love each other , then you will work it out, otherwise, take the lesson and learn from it. God Bless, and Peace.
2006-08-09 02:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cud be really annoyed. She cud b bz. She cud have found some1 else who treats her the way she wants her. She cud just b teaching u a lesson.
Frankly it sounds like she wants 2 annul the relationship. Rethink what the argument was all abt. Try 2 make amends frm that. Show up with choc and flowers and an evening full of free time. I am sure u will find out frm her verbal and non-verbs how she feels. If she is receptive, jettison ur ego and show her the best time u did. Remember the best poart abt a lover's spat is making-up. And if she is not receptive try a bt 2 find out why - if she doesn't want to or is seeing some1 else - then 4get abt the whole thing, appreciate the lesson and eat the chocolates urself.
Cheers!
2006-08-09 02:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by ReviewerX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 10:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by kleid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is enjoying your misery, you have good reason to drop her.
She knows you're there.
I suggest you get on with your life. If she wakes up and gives
you a call, that's great. Otherwise, she's clearly ticked beyond
reason and do you really want to be involved with somebody
who reacts that way?
2006-08-09 01:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the argument was about. Write her a letter and ask if you can talk. If she still ignores you then you might just have to go on with your life with someone else.
2006-08-09 01:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Skeeter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have REALLY made her mad. I'd give it a little while, and if you haven't heard from her in 2 weeks, then it's over.. or perhaps she was just looking for an excuse to leave you.. and this was it.
2006-08-09 01:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes no sense. Speak English.
2006-08-09 01:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont read any meanings 2 it yet go to her find out.she might have lost the phone,or better still hide your no.when calling her or use another line 2 call her.
2006-08-09 02:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by darlington m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have really ticked her off. Or she found someone who treats her better! Try sending her flowers in the mail.
2006-08-09 01:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋